how can you tell if your wife is cheating i need some pointers?

Answer 1

First don't jump to conclusion. She might not be.
To even say she is cheating you need to SEE evidence that she is.
Try some of these
Come home early from work one day.
Lie and say you have to work, and get dress to go. Wait a while and come home.
Hire a detective.
Follow her.
This is all I can tell you. But don't jump to conclusion unless you see evidence of cheating.

Answer 2

First thing you should do is
- ask her

Then if you really do think she is these are some indications and solutions-
- time unaccounted for: ask her to explain
- suddenly working longer hours: call the office NOT cell phone, or ask her to call you on a phone where you have caller ID/ offer to meet her, pick her up, drop off a snack, etc.
- new interests: join her
- Higher phone bills: request read outs
- New make-up, new perfume scents, new clother, etc.- question the change if there is any
- Change in sex life- more or less can be an indication- more- she maybe trying to make up for the guilt, less- she may be tired
- She may kiss differently or do other things differently and since this is usually a relaxed time most slip up occur here
- Ask a friend of hers of family member that you can trust.

I hope you are wrong but since love and live comes with no guarantees be careful and good luck.

Answer 3

1) get some one to spy on her
2) get the phone bill for the last few months that way u know which numbers u regognise and which ones r new and often called
3)women normally have sex with their husband even if they r cheating. some times more to compensate so if u r getting more or no sex.
4) if she has jewllery on that u havent bought
5) if she dissapears for a long time and doesnt have a explaination or gives u too much information. she is making a alibi
6) if she says she is going with a friend call up that friend and pretend that her cell was not going through if she is there u will find out.

Answer 4

Why don't you try trust??? Why did you get married??? Or you might want to check some of the things that you do as well. Are you up front and honest??? But if you really want to check out your wife, why don't you hire a private detective???

Answer 5

New lingere you see in her drawer but never on her body.
Time that is unaccounted for, weird phone calls, late "work" nights, condoms in her purse and her girlfriends won't look you in the eye anymore.
Hope you have an air tight prenuptial agreement.

Answer 6

no sex, out late nights (at work), smells prettier, or dresses nicer than usual, look in her trunk, is there some kind of hygiene kit in there that she can use to freshen up, follow her. If you are really worried, there is a serious trust issue anyhow!!!

Answer 7

Get her cell phone listing and check frequent calls

Answer 8

If she is not having sex with you, that is a good sign and if she gets irritated at you really quick.

Answer 9

Send flowers with no name on them. If she responds and says did you send me flowers then no one else is in her life, but if she doesn't then you know she doesn't know who it came from.

Answer 10

if you think her behaviours are different from normally... then you should observe .pay close attention to her daily actions.