Many women feel the same as you in the first trimester, but the nausea and the tiredness WILL pass. You don't want to look back and realize that you killed your child because you didn't feel well. You will always regret not waiting just a few more weeks. At seven weeks, your baby already has a beating heart, recordable brain waves, tiny fingers, and tiny toes. At eight weeks, she will be able to suck her thumb and feel pain. At nine weeks, she is able to wrap her fingers around an object placed in her palm. You can see some beautiful photos of seven and eight week old babies here:
http://www.studentsforlife.uct.ac.za/foetal%20dev%20photos.html
and learn more about your baby's development here:
http://www.justthefacts.org/clar.asp
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-2-prenatal.html
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/in_pictures/3847319.stm
You also really need to see photos of what you are considering:
Photos of Abortions:
http://www.cbrinfo.org/Resources/pictures.html
A Four-Minute, Must-See Video on Abortion:
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-A-4-video.html
Please make sure you have all the facts:
Information on All Aspects of Abortion:
http://Abort73.com
Pain Perception in the Unborn:
http://www.advocatesfortheinnocent.com/fetalpain.html
Abortion Stories:
http://abortiontv.com/Words/truestoriesfrom-mothers.htm
http://www.abort73.com/HTML/I-G-2-testimony.html
Abortion Risks:
http://afterabortion.info/complic.html
http://www.abortionfacts.com/reardon/effect_of_abortion.asp
Abortion Deaths:
http://www.lifedynamics.com/Pro-life_Group/Pro-choice_Women
http://www.afterabortion.info/news/abortiondeaths.html
There is lots of support and help available for you:
Free, Confidential Pregnancy Help (including referrals for financial, medical, legal, and housing assistance; free ultrasounds; free maternity and baby supplies; pregnancy, parenting, and adoption information; counseling and emotional support):
http://www.optionline.org/advantage.asp
Support for Pregnant Teens:
http://standupgirl.com/site/index.php
Support for Pregnant College and Career Women:
http://www.nurturingnetwork.org
It is still not too late to do the right thing. Your baby is depending on you, her mommy, for love and protection. Please don't let her down. You CAN get through this. Things will get better, and when you hold your baby in your arms for the first time and she grasps your finger and snuggles up to you, it will all be worth it!
2006-07-19 01:56:49
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, you need to think about this baby now, not about yourself. If you don't want to keep the baby, put it up for adoption. Believe me, if you end up getting the abortion, one day you will look back and feel horrible for doing it. You will wonder all your life what that baby would have been like. Are you aware that the baby has a heartbeat already? And is starting to get little buds where the arms and legs will be. Think about it some more. You need to make an informed, educated decision about this.
As far as showing, some women show sooner then others. Almost anything is normal when you talk about a pregnant belly.
2006-07-13 13:55:58
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answered by odd duck 6
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Your baby at 7 wees is VERY ALIVE and the heart bit is already beating, It angers me how people like yourself see abortion as an easy way out, Give this child a chance, if you think you are too young and immature to raise this child, then give him for adoption, but DO NOT KILL HIM. Babies are a blessing form above and you should feel special and grateful that you have an open womb to carry a child, think about 1,000 of woman out there who would do anything to be able to have a child but unfortunately they can't, and there you are, able to have one and willing to get rid of it like a piece of trash. If you did not want a child for now, you should have thought about it BEFORE you opened up your legs, I really hope for your sake you don't go through with this if you do I can assure you, you will regret it sooner or later, imagine how much love that little bundle of joy is gonna bring you in 33 more weeks, just please DO NOT DO IT. period.
2006-07-13 14:02:35
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answered by Anonymous
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At this early stage you're not showing - it's probably just bloating. I really wish that you would/could reconsider your decision. Or at least highly educate yourself where an abortion is concerned. Speaking from experience it messes you up far more than even you are aware of until after it's all done and over with. Trust me on that. Please use the link below and read more about it before making such a live changing decision ...
http://afterabortion.com/
PASS (Post Abortion Stress Syndrome) is very real...
If you need to talk to someone ... you can email me okay?
2006-07-13 13:58:20
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answered by Raven 2
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I dont think you should have an abortion, your baby has feelings you know. Its alive and it would be so mean to do that to the poor child . And i thought you wouldnt go past a certin amount of weeks and being 8 weeks, you can see your baby's heart beat if you got an ultrasound. I think you are making a poor decision if you decide to terminate the pregnacy, maybe next time you should have unprotected sex and be so naive!!!!! It just angers me when someone can be so careless and then kill a baby b/c they were being stupid!!!!
2006-07-13 14:15:36
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answered by Katie not telling 2
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its mind control. You can not possibly be showing at 7 weeks, unless its a multiple pregnancy.
good luck to you.
Dont listen to these people telling you not to have an abortion, its YOUR body.. you do what you think is right. Adoption should be a LAST alternative. Your baby will think you gave up on him because you dont love him, and the adopters probably wont even tell him about his mom until he is an adult. Could you imagine not knowing your mother? and then wondering why she gave you up?
unless you have first hand experience with both adoption and abortion, dont judge this poor girl.
2006-07-13 14:07:49
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answered by psychstudent 5
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Aborting is not the right thing to do and I am sure you knew the consequences of having unsafe sex. Give that baby to a family who are looking for a child to love and raise. Right now that is a living being inside so please do not kill it. You said you are very young, which means you are too young to have sex. Well now you must face the consequences of your actions and not make this baby suffer because you neglected to be responsible. ADOPTION IS THE RIGHT THING!
2006-07-13 14:05:52
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answered by Coast2CoastChat.com 5
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all this simptoms are normal in a pregnancy also the size of your stomach theres a human being growing in there you know, and about abortion iam against you see that little baby is alredy there he or she didint get there because of he or she its because of you and the one who beget or engender this baby its because the inresponsability of both because yous didnt use protection now read this your baby is 2 months at this time this little ones heart beats this baby already feels his nerve sistem is already in function also the kidneys,the stomach,the liver at the time you say your gonna have the abortion this baby will be around 6 centimeters long and its weight will be around 30 grams this baby at 9 to 10 weeks already have his eyes functioning at this time the babies eyes are sensible to light also he or she can swollow and hears sounds and noices the point is that what iam traying to make you understand is that this baby is alive he or she can feel pain just imagine what would you feel if some one tear you apart being alive or maybe burn you alive with the saline method or to feel you are tearing apart alive by the suction method just think dont do this is a cruel crime , meditate in all i have wrote to you in here this time its not for the points you can give them to someone else if you wich, its for that human that is screaming for you to give him or she a chance to live. check this out then think go to htt://abortionno.org/resourses/pictures_2.html or email me whenever you whant bye.
2006-07-13 14:51:09
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answered by sweethot 2
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you don't start showing typically between 3-5 months, so it might just be your imagination. Even if you did get "bigger" in 2 1/2 weeks... it would go away due to the fact you're getting an abortion.. unless it is dietary related.
2006-07-13 13:53:08
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answered by shaninj4 1
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everyones body is different and grows at a different rate.......The tired thing is normal for the first couple of months....I'm sad to hear that you are having an abortion but I hope the best for you. I also got pregnant young (16) but decided to have the baby.
e mail if you have any question you don't want to post
2006-07-13 14:30:56
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answered by dininat 3
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