i am a 20 yr old lesbian who just came out and so far every 1 said im goin to hell
2006-07-13 06:47:32 · 13 answers · asked by jean hllnd_2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You were brave to come out. I'm a 20 yr old Christian and I realize that everyone sins. Yes, according to the bible homosexuality is a sin, but so is lying, cheating, jealousy, lust.... therefore I think you have the same chance of getting into heaven as everyone else. I don't know if you're Christian as well, but I think that you should ask God to forgive you for your sins, and try to live life according to his will. I can't tell u to stop being a lesbian, because i understand that sometimes you are just born that way, just like we are all born sinners, but Jesus loves you anyway and he knows your heart. Only he can judge you so don't listen to these other people that tell you u are going to hell, tell them to worry about their own sins and by judging you they are not being good Christians themselves. Anyway, hope I helped. God bless.
2006-07-13 06:59:29 · answer #1 · answered by candy 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If I believed in heaven and hell, I would say "no." Isn't it well known for forgiveness. The bible demands people into believing they can only be one way. Meaning there are a lot of devoted Christians out there hiding their true selves.
Being gay is not a crime! It's a preference. It's not like you are killing people!
I wouldn't worry about it if I were in that position. Not at all!
2006-07-13 13:55:18 · answer #2 · answered by val schmal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is unnatural to be with the same sex, and I feel like as long as you get forgiveness you will not burn in hell but as long as you continue to live in such a way and know that it is wrong then you are going against what God planned and yes you could go to hell for it.
As for the people who think that I am passing judgment on you and will go to hell for that, they are wrong.! I am not judging you at all. I have a friend who is gay and he knows what he is doing is wrong so this is on him when it comes judgment day and not on me. All I can do as a christian is to tell you that it is wrong and you need to read your bible and ask someone who knows and understands the bible to help you to understand the words that are written so you can make this choice for yourself.
2006-07-13 13:53:55 · answer #3 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st There is no Hell - no Heaven - no 20 vestal virgins waiting for you in the afterlife - for that matter no afterlife. When you're dead you're dead and as you're taking your last breath you'll realize this and then regret all the things you wanted to do in life but were afraid to do so because of this mind controled fear of going to hell.
2nd If the concept of Heaven - Hell - god - Afterlife - Punishment or Reward were all true - Do you really think that the god who created you would actually turn his back on you and send you to a place of eternal damnation and suffering? Is he/she so vengeful and vindictive to allow this? I don't think so.
If you're gay or straight more power to you - I wish much happiness to you.
2006-07-13 13:59:32 · answer #4 · answered by RAllen1st 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Will people born with cleft pallates go? Will those born with a dead twin attached to their bodies go? How about people with extra limbs. Many things that people have learned about from the dark ages still applies today for some reason. Now that we have new technologies, we know more about DNA and whatever else psychologists have figured out about people. Annnnd...there's someone for everyone. No, I aint gay. Just logical.
2006-07-13 13:56:49 · answer #5 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to let the whole "god" thing go. God doesn't exist, the bible is all lies, etc. The only truth is what you see today, and iff a whole bunch of JERKS tell you the you are going to hell while they aren't, then maybe this HELL thing is BETTER.
2006-07-13 13:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not going to go to hell if just because you are lesbian. They will go to hell first because they have passed judgement on you.
2006-07-13 13:50:35 · answer #7 · answered by merlinsdragonfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you can't be "sent" to place that you don't believe in. If you do believe then cop out like the rest and repent before you die.
2006-07-13 13:55:18 · answer #8 · answered by Migity696 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No....We have an all forgiving God...besides this is our hell...
2006-07-13 13:50:44 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ Snowflake ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no hell!
2006-07-13 14:01:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋