2006-07-13 06:44:21 · 20 answers · asked by klunk 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
We are all nobodies.
The sooner we realize that the better for the world.
Half the problems we have in life; is cos we feel we’re all important.
Humility is key… u don’t have to announce to the world you are some body.. the world will announce u in due season.
So, my dear, we are all nobodies.. It’s the grace of God that makes us some bodies.
2006-07-13 06:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by Deb 4 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are only a nobody if you think you are. That all depends on what you think a nobody is. The way others see you is how you portray yourself. The way you walk down a street or the way you act is a message. If you hold your head high and smile people will see a confident person who has something to live for. This will attract people to you.
If you think you are a nobody do something about it. Join in something around your neighborhood or help someone if they drop a book. That will show you are a good person and make you feel better.
Also people notice you more than you think. Walking down a hallway and someone passes you, they may not say hi but they know you are there. You can't be ignored. Someone will always there to love you,someone will always be there to talk to, you just have to find them.
Your personality and traits make you a someone. You interests and likes make you someone. Your dislikes do it too. It can't be avoided. Almost every aspect of your life makes you an individual, which makes you a somebody. No one can ever tell you that your not a someone b/c that's not possible.
The choices in life you make make you a someone. What you eat for breakfast to what you do in life makes you a someone as well. Everything you do molds you into the individual you are.
Trust me I know from personal experience. I've doon some of the things on here and it helped me.
2006-07-13 14:44:33 · answer #2 · answered by Kimberly K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm forty and three of my four kids should be on their way out of my house by now but they're sort of lingering at the moment... which is fine because most of the time we have a lot of fun... but there are other times, both now and in the past when they don't listen to a darn thing I say... which not only makes mom a tad cranky, but I feel ignored and insignificant.
Same goes for the husband... totally wrapped up in his job and his "hobbies" and I usually don't manage to really get his attention unless something major happens or I pitch a "redheaded fit" about something. For those of you who have never experienced the phenomenon it sounds like a cross between an angry wolverine and a wailing banshee. *L*
What I'm trying to say is that in the scope of things it's easy to feel that nobody is listening, paying attention and that you don't matter. However, often it is the small things that you do or say or ways in which you behave that stick with people and you may never know that you've made a difference in someone's life.
Being "SOMEBODY" doesn't mean that you have a fabulous job, fancy car, designer clothes and an entourage of hangers-on. It's not about awards or recognition of any kind. It's about looking inside yourself and knowing that you are a good person, that you are kind to those in need even if all you have to give is a smile.
2006-07-13 14:01:34 · answer #3 · answered by nimbleminx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We’re all somebody although some people just don’t know it…I mean I bet you have tons to offer to the world but you just haven’t been lucky…..why don’t you ask yourself what would actually make you somebody?? If people carried about you, if you had tons of money power….i don’t know more friends…if that’s the answer all theses things can be found in life all you gotta do is try and get a little help from God….or maybe you’re just having a bad day I would say just rest bit…watch some telly call up some friends cheer yourself up…and maybe you’ll just feel differently tomorrow (I hope you do).hmmm and again we’re all somebody cause just our presence makes a difference ( some people just make a bigger one then the others…
2006-07-13 14:06:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then get yourself out of the bed, and be a somebody by doing a noble deed:
1) Help an old lady accross a street
2) Teach your younger siblings maths
3) Read a story to the kids in the library
4) Give some fruits to the less priviledged on the street
Then when you go to bed, you will realise you have been a very helpful somebody today!
2006-07-13 13:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Angel_like 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a mid-life crisis and rearrange your life to get rid of some of the excess baggage you picked up when you thought you were on the way to becoming "somebody."
Then you settle back and enjoy the advantages of being "nobody." Anonymity has its rewards. It frees you up when you realize that no one at all cares what you do. You can finally quit performing for the expectations of others once and for all and start trying to figure out what *you* want from life. ;-)
2006-07-13 14:35:10 · answer #6 · answered by Jim R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like, Oh My Gosh!!
Take a 20 gal. canister of fine grain sand full to the top. OK, imagine you are one pebble of sand out of all that. Like the Jews we are given numbers to identify with - Jews, on the wrist we have ours on paper SS Card. Nothing, yes we ARE - Nothing....
Do you mean not having a job, family, memories of childhood, friends, money or even a priest. Well, i guess you need a hobbie!!
2006-07-13 16:38:43 · answer #7 · answered by NEMESIS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hehe Why Would that 1 morning be any different from any other morning... or maybe just roll over and go back to sleep
2006-07-13 14:23:09 · answer #8 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then how could I wake up if I'm a nobody
2006-07-13 13:47:54 · answer #9 · answered by leanthony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put on some clothes which no one else I know has, and start being a somebody that way. Build from there.
2006-07-13 13:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by Lily Iris 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋