2006-07-13 06:43:29 · 10 answers · asked by Jerry's cowgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
no way! once a cheater, always a cheater dear!!
2006-07-13 06:48:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jade 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, are we talking about Jerry?
Second, even fundamentalist Christianity allows for divorce in cases of adultery. Cheating is BAD news. So, as a general rule, it is good to leave a cheater now - especially since you are not married. Generally, hear what everyone is saying: move on.
But ... if you want to try ... then it all depends on his type of apology. A simple "I'm sorry" won't do. He must do lots ... LOTS more. Explain why he did it. Explain what is different that it won't happen again. Explain why it is wrong. Display that he understands how it hurt YOU (it wasn't just wrong, but it damaged your heart, and ability to trust). Display how he feels that he hurt you. Do some form of recompense (make it up to you).
Most guys won't go through this ... but these are the steps of a person who sincerely knows he did something wrong and knows he did something to hurt you and grieves that he hurt you.
If he doesn't show these traits, kick him to the curb and move on.
2006-07-13 07:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would forgive him, but I would not get back with him for the simple fact if he is still sleeping with his x, then there not officially over.
2006-07-13 06:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by tiey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would feel really disappointed but I would forgive him but if he cheated more than once I would leave him.
2006-07-13 06:49:59 · answer #4 · answered by daphne_lln 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is in no way acceptable even with the ex that is just messed up. Move on
2006-07-13 06:51:15 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT. do NOT go bak to him. he doesnt deserve ur affections. remember, guys arent worth ur tears and the one who is, wont make u cry. this guy will make u cry. move on and ull find the right one for u
2006-07-13 06:52:53 · answer #6 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never take him back but I would forgive him.
2006-07-13 06:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by shywoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, go to dontdatehimgirl.com and post him up as a cheater so other girls will know about him for who he really is!
2006-07-13 06:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope he'll only do it again.
2006-07-13 07:11:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way,
2006-07-13 06:46:39 · answer #10 · answered by sweet84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋