2006-07-13 06:37:06 · 9 answers · asked by ladycrunkjuice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's not effective teaching. You need your own bell rung in your unique way and you're sending bad signals. But then maybe it was a quickie. Next time, give directions.
However - is it mean? It's only mean not to provide the opportunity.
2006-07-13 06:50:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I battled with that myself. I have come to the conclusion that:
1. It doesnt help either party if you fake an O... The guy thinks he successful did something that he did NOT do, and thereby will habitually keep doing what he THINKS makes you O, therefore leaving you orgasmLESS.
2. If you have a truly honest relationship with someone, or youre working towards it, dont lie. No biggie; You didnt come. Tell him straight up if he asks. Ex) "No, I didnt baby but no big deal. I love fooling around with/having sex with you, it doesnt matter."
And DEFINITELY be verbal- most men have no idea how to make you come, theyre just trying their damndest. Help the guy out and give him some tips. Incorporate it into dirty talk, if you guys are into that. When he's getting you close and you know that you can come if he keeps doing something specific, TELL him. Trust me, he will not mind.
2006-07-13 06:43:42 · answer #2 · answered by nikkib 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, sometimes a man doesn't know the train derailed, and they will be no horn blowing tonight! its natural. Can't happen everytime and you wanna sleep.
2006-07-13 06:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all the man thinks he did good just dont rub it in his face that you faked it
2006-07-13 06:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by george 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-07-13 06:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by byteme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because he thinks he made u come and you really didn't your only hurting yourself when you do that
2006-07-13 06:49:45 · answer #6 · answered by slpandsfp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOPE, your loss -- not his.
2006-07-13 06:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by theoldguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope not really.......
2006-07-13 06:41:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,
2006-07-13 06:40:45 · answer #9 · answered by Beth 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋