2006-07-13 06:20:52 · 19 answers · asked by yousef55555 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
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2006-07-13 06:21:46 · answer #1 · answered by superguy0084 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Learn to treasure your virginity, because losing it is a bell that cannot be unrung. Like being born, it is something you only get to do once, so you should do it right. You will regret it horribly later if you just stick tab A into slot B to prove you can.
Wait until there is someone who means enough to you to share your special moment. For that matter, if you want your life to be successful, being married only once is an important factor.
You improve your chances of being married, and not being divorced by saving yourself and your intimacy for that important person in your life. Don't bring incurable disease and child support payments to your marriage, either, as that isn't a great way to start a life together.
It isn't what body part goes where that matters. It is who you are with, respect, love, intimacy, sharing, teamwork, skill, and learning together.
Oh, and contrary to the opinion of modern youth, oral is sex too. So maybe you aren't actually a virgin anymore, anyway.
2006-07-13 13:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Bink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My same question also is WHY? I know that's what the tv and most everyone is pushing for, to have sex and all that. But I am a true believer that it is wise to wait until you are married. Until your wedding night. Imagine how it will be if you wait! Your bride will be the first one, and maybe she will be a virgin too. You may very well not be perfect that night, but you have the rest of your lives to perfect the act and loving.
You do not want to just have sex. It is dangerous and you will have to worry about STD's and then also about becoming a parent. It is very worth the wait.
I hope this helps, and yes, it gets hard, but after you do it, it will be harder to not do it. So don't start now, not until you are married then you can have sex whenever.
2006-07-13 13:35:52 · answer #3 · answered by ~~Catbird Woman~~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe all the hype about it and relax. There are probably more virgin girls and boys today because of all the STDs going around. Then, there's that first time with a guy. It may not be all the pleasant for you because you're nervous. And boys about your age, will be more than happy but they too will not know how to treat you well and reduce any fears and pain you may have. Best to wait until you are older and more mature to deal with guys and better prepared to handle the situation. my 2 cents.
2006-07-13 13:30:21 · answer #4 · answered by Morphious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a steady job, find someone to court, Marry that person, once you have found out that you and this person are willing to share and give your lives together and to each other, stay married by working on your stupid problems, and you can have sex everyday of your life, without having to worry about disease, because you chose each other to have sex with and you chose each other to share your lives with and you would promise not to share yourself with anyone else. Got that. I did it. And I make love to my wife all the freakin' time, and it's great, there is no security like that one. And she will always be there.
2006-07-13 13:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing your virginity isnt something you want to just give away. You need to share it with someone special or else you end up regretting the act. Take your time, dont rush it.
2006-07-13 14:13:11 · answer #6 · answered by Queen WahidVII 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen up! sex isn't what you see on t.v it's not all about love making and being in love forever. this is a big decision stay a virgin as long as you can go through school and become some one important...by the way sex is a headache especially if your not able to handle it.
2006-07-13 13:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by wendy j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your only 16. Give yourself some time. Remember...Any time you have sex there is a chance of making a baby. Do not have sex until you are ready for any and all of the responsibilities that go with it.
2006-07-13 13:24:47 · answer #8 · answered by i_am_the_dida 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to give your self to a man that way he can add you to his belt and you can loose a piece of your spirit? Do you have a boyfriend who cares about you? ? ? ... if not you need to wait.
If you are horny or such.. masturbate.. explore your body... don't give it away to the first caller that comes along.
2006-07-13 13:25:42 · answer #9 · answered by Sunshine_Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this people tell you that you can't have sex until you find your real love so just keep on masturbating every day and trust me it feels good. If you don't know how feel free to email me.
2006-07-13 13:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by I'm a guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you aren't old enough to spell, you sure aren't mature enough for sex. For Heaven's sake girl, think about what you are throwing away.
2006-07-13 13:30:24 · answer #11 · answered by Grandma Susie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋