ok there is this kid at school that bullies me and evreyone else likes him for it wut do i do to make him stop and telling him to stop didnt work
2006-07-13 05:40:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Everyone goes through this kid,I have a ten year old who was going through the same thing and I don't allow my daughter to fight becuz I told her the human body was not made to be hit on and becuz she's a young lady.But it got so bad that she would come home and tell me that she would raise her hand and try and tell the teacher and they would tell her to put her hand down so you might haf to do battle with kid.Have you told your parent's or your counselor at school?I know it's hard baby becuz my daughter poor thing loss weight like crazy.But if he don't put his hands on you don't worry about it.I believe the other kids are laughing becuz they are afraid if they don't they are next on his list.Trust me these kids know he's a pain but they are probably just as scared as you are.Try to avoid him in the halls if possible.I'm so sorry you have to go through this becuz school is free and a learning institution you should'nt have to be worried if you go to school if your going to haf to fight today.Hang in there!
2006-07-13 05:49:59 · answer #1 · answered by dccuttie75 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it's the age-old Ignoring trick. You have to ignore him. Bullies feed off of seeing you hurt or angry. If you just walk by him and act like he's not there, or at least not bothering you he will eventually get discouraged and stop. Telling him won't help because that's his way of finding out that he's bothering you, and telling teachers or adults is probably going to make it worse. Trust me, ignoring takes a while, but it worked for me.
2006-07-13 05:44:27 · answer #2 · answered by nintendofreak91788 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to speak to someone in authority and then go see someone else to learn to stand up for yourself! I know that can be hard but it will help the situation. Also, just try and stay away from this person- talk to your parents, maybe a school counselor or maybe even a minister. Just make it perfectly clear to them that you would prefer your name not be brought up when someone talks to him or he'll assume you're just trying to make trouble for him. If you can defend yourself~ just tell him you need to talk, tell him your tired of the BS and come to an agreement that maybe he can stay on one side of the hall and you'll stay on the other- just tell him to stay away from you. What's it going to hurt? If he beats your a$$ then report him and let him fry~ otherwise you might just make a friend.
2006-07-13 05:49:09 · answer #3 · answered by Linda Porn (my married name) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies attack the weak and vulnerable. Show him you are not scared, and that he does not bother you. Usually, they lose interest and move on to someone else. If nothing else works, you will have to report him to your school. A lot of schools are adopting a no bully policy, one strike and your out. I hope it works out for you.
2006-07-13 05:44:19 · answer #4 · answered by cici 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta learn to stand up for your self!! Say something like "I'm not gonna put up with your sh*t any more.. I don't deserve this, I did nothing to you." Then just walk away. Or else you can just simply ignore everything he says... eventually he'll get bored of you and find someone else to torture. I know that it's really hard to handle that kind of crap.. I went through it too. But you can't just let it happen, you have to do something about it! Don't let that low-life ruin YOUR life!! Good luck!
2006-07-13 05:44:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to flip the script. The next time he/she bullies you, take them down. Some bullies just look for defenseless perps. Once they know you will take care of yourself, they usually move on to some other mark who does not defend themself.
2006-07-13 05:44:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bullies like attention, and they like it when their victims make a big scene. Just ignore him. I know it'll be hard, but try it. Hope it works out for ya!
2006-07-13 05:52:44 · answer #7 · answered by zagato_queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wat!!!! well. i neva did dis b4, but i'll tell some1. dats da best thing 2 do in some pplz book. but in mines. i would wup his bullyin a s s down. an, if u don't know how 2 fight? den u betta learn, cause if u don't wup his a s s now, he'll just keep on punkin ur a s s as long as y'all in da same skool.and if dat don't work, den i'll wup his a s s i got ur back. i hate dose kinna pplz.(srry 4 all da cussin)=)
2006-07-13 05:47:15 · answer #8 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't take his crap! first act like it doesn't bother you and laugh at him. bullies do it for the reaction and more when they know it bothers you! but, if that doesn't work then you must stand up to him and not back down. don't start anything, but don't take it either. if too afraid of fighting, he'll know it...but, if it's truly the case, then report to the counselor at school and find out what best to do.
now, i'm not telling you to fight, but i'm telling you like i tell my own kids...DON'T TAKE NO CRAP either. you must learn to take up for yourself in life, cause if you don't then who will? especially later when you're out on your own!
take care!!!
2006-07-13 05:51:26 · answer #9 · answered by thundakat312 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you report him???this is the best way to deal with this normally.but in case it didn't just ignore him and smile at him every time he says something and turn your back on him and walk him.and trust after a while he'll be bored and he'll stop.be patient but pls do report him
2006-07-13 05:46:22 · answer #10 · answered by celine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋