My boyfriend never ejaculates when we have sex but my previous partners except for one have always ejaculated could it be that he is having sex with someone else, something wrong with me, or is it him? We have unprotected sex and he says that he is afraid of getting me pregnant is this true?
2006-07-13 05:23:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
So let's see. You are having sex with your boyfriend but you don't feel comfortable asking him an intimate question.
Let me guess. You are practicing for a future bad marriage.
2006-07-13 05:31:42 · answer #1 · answered by lunatic 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is no way to tell if he has had sex with someone prior to you and if he always has issues ejaculating, it is most likely a dysfunction on his part. The problem could be physical or mental brought on by the fact that you have unprotected sex... especially if he is young or not ready for a family.
I would start by using some birth control... whether it be a condom or some form of prescribed birth control. If he is still unable to ejaculate after you make it comfortable for him, then his problem is something deeper and he will need to see a doctor.
Remember, too, unprotected sex can get you more than just pregnant. Don't forget about STDs!
2006-07-13 12:31:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't tell if he has had sex with another woman just because he doesn't ejaculate with you. And if he uses the line, I don't want to get you pregnant, don't go for that because you can get pregnant even if he doesn't ejaculate in you.
Now if he comes home & you want sex and he refuses or says hold on let me shower first then that could be a sign & a certain way you can tell for sure say this: "Oh, honey, you are so sexy and I want some oral s3x, I want to suck on you!" And if he uses the shower fact for not wanting to do it right then..bingo, he has had sex and he doesn't want to expose you to his other woman.
But if you are only concerned about this because he doesn't ejaculate, that doesn't mean he is cheating. Nothing wrong with you & nothing wrong with him. Stress can cause a man not to ejaculate so talk to him about that. If he is stressed give him a full body massage to relax him & see how things go from there.
2006-07-13 12:37:25 · answer #3 · answered by ~Sheila~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be so afraid that he cant finish...most guys have to be really in control of themselves to make sure they dont go at the wrong time. While unprotected there could still be a chance that he is pre-ejaculating and not know it and still get you pregnant (just fyi) I wouldn't completely rule out cheating, but I would definately use protection..if he doesnt want to then tell him you cant be intimate...its too important to just compromise on this one. If he is able to finish with protection then he may be ok...or there could be other issues health wise. Ask him if he is able to finish on his own or if this happens all the time no matter what...or if thats too embarrasing just say you are concerned he is under too much stress and should consult a doctor to make sure it is normal. take care.
2006-07-13 12:32:33 · answer #4 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please use condoms. Do not have unprotected sex with any person unless you are married to them. Forget getting pregnant, what about getting a disease that you have to deal with for the rest of your life. It is not worth it.
If you think this guy may be with someone else you are only putting your life and your health on the line by having unprotected sex with him. It is not worth it.
If he cant ejaculate because he is scared of you getting pregnant, then that is only more reason to use protection. With a condom maybe he can relax and feel comfortable and not worry about getting you pregnant and then he will be able to ejaculate. Either way, you need to use condoms!!!
2006-07-13 12:32:03 · answer #5 · answered by KapEsq 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just be that he is withdrawing early, in an attempt to avoid getting you pregnant. What the moron doesn't know, is that it is not a good form of birth control. If you don't want to get pregnant, use a condom or birth control pills.
If you two are having sex, you should have the common sense to talk to one another about this.. instead of asking the whole world, who has no idea what your relationship is like.
2006-07-13 12:27:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's telling the truth. Why would having sex with another girl prevent him from ejaculating with you? We have enough ejaculate to go around =)
2006-07-13 12:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by nolyad69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why unprotected sex
2006-07-13 12:27:47 · answer #8 · answered by righteous992003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might be true that he ant ready to have kids yet but i would wait a few day before you give him some and PUT IT ON HIM don't let it work u you show him how much woman you are and wit it...he wont have a chose then.
2006-07-13 12:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Tam Tam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can be threatened to STDs pregnency if > 16 years at mences cycle.does hold your berast and suck it while sexing with you. you are enough good daring to have unprotected sex. reply if you like it on my Id.
thanks
2006-07-13 12:29:57 · answer #10 · answered by deekay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋