Thoughts on balding men - for the ladies?

Question

Hi Ladies,

I'm about to enter my 30's and have started balding.. At the rate I am going I will be bald within the next year or so. Do you think I should invest in some hair regain solution or just go gracefully bald & keep my hair very short.

Do woman find balding men less attractive?

Answer 1

Combover.

Never face the truth man, never!

Answer 2

Let it go. I used to think that going bald was the end of the world. Well, I'm about 60% gone now and I don't care anymore. I learned in the past few years that it's not what you look like that forms a person's long-term opinion of you. It's what you say and what you do to follow-up your words; how you treat others who serve you or are subordinate to you; how you treat your wife and kids; how quickly you discharge your debts; how neat and tidy you keep your home and your grounds and most importantly, how well you can be trusted. If you can't be trusted, you are of no value. Look at Bill Clintoon. Some say he's a "good-looking" guy, but would you trust him overnight in a Motel 6 with your wife?

Do women find chrome-dome guys less attractive? Yes. There was a Phil Donahue show on in the early 1980s asking just this question. A study found 96% of women preferred men with hair; just 4% liked bubbletops like me.

Answer 3

I say shave it off, using things like regain is just postponing the inevitable and in my opinion is a little sad – age gracefully.

I think a lot of bald men do look good, particularly when they are confident and don't mind the fact they are bald, you will always find women who are attracted to bald guys. Plus either way you're going to attract women, someone who is right for you won't care if you have hair or not.

Answer 4

Don't even try to save the hair just shave it all off now that way everyone will think you prefer bald over having hair and as for sexy bald is beautiful I love my boyfriends bald head his also is falling out fast but just except it and make the best if it.If a woman is with you because of what you look like throw her back its whats inside that counts.

Answer 5

Im 26 and i dont have a problem with bald guys, it will look nice if you keep it very short or go bald, the ONLY type of guys i have a problem with is the ones that obscess about it, beleive me you're probably more worried about it than any woman is, most women are way less visual than men so things like that aren't a big deal to most of us, if you have a caring personality, are supportive, healthy looking (not super fat, or rail thin) and treat us like the queens we are who gives a dam if your missing a little hair.

Answer 6

I was 21 when first started the baldness 26 now,everytime i went to my hairdressers i asked her to be careful with whats left, and to tell you straight, theres nothing you can do about it, there are millions of bald geezers in the world and most of them have wifes kids and shyte, its you, dont worry, when you started growing pubes there was confusion, same as, its a transition that will make you look like a man of the world, lol i am telling myself here. dont chase what you think everyone else expects, i am going bald you are going bald 99milion people are going bald, at least its not cancer or something, hey

Answer 7

I used to think that I could never find short or bald men attractive... my family has a history of lustrous, silky hair - even the men. Then I met my fiance - he shaves his head and is only an inch taller than me but has an awesome physique and great eyes. But the best part is that he matter-of-factly thinks that he has killer looks and tells me about how girls used to be hot for him before we started dating. And believe me - nothing is sexier than a guy who is unapologetic about his looks - I have fallen hard for this one.

So my advice is - maximize what you have. Yes, women may find balding men unattractive but trust me, they can't resist bald men who know how to flaunt it :-)

Answer 8

I think that balding men are attractive. just dont let this discourage you, many , many women love bald men. More and more men are beginning to go bald earlier anyway. No big deal

Answer 9

SEXY ! shave it all off in one go though, nothing looks worse than just a little bald patch ! look at grant an phil in eastenders, SEX SYMBOLS ! LOVE EM ! there are loads of sexy bald celebs. the only thing i would advise though is to get out in the sun and tan your head the same colour as your face, using sun cream of course, as the skin on your scalp is tender. then get a good duster and a bottle of mr sheen and buff away !!!!!! only kidding !!

Answer 10

i do now no longer imagine of the Adams relations contributors seem is amazingly alluring. So why ought to you shave your hair like them? i imagine of adult men who're dropping their hair are though alluring. except they attempt to cover it with lengthy hair combed over the bald spot. Yuck. some are very alluring. some are very pleasing. besides the shown shown truth that it is not their hair on my own, that's their personality too. you're leaving out the significant significant component. we adore an useful (now no longer cocky) guy who's kind, courteous, ambitious, smart and knowledgeable. a guy who has a pastime and a plan for his existence. a guy who does no longer take his blouse off as immediately as we are out making use of truth he thinks it really is pleasing (its now no longer), a guy who does no longer ought to favor to drink each and every time we do something. a guy who isn't eyeing each and every female who walks by making use of. a guy who does no longer have a touch one or 2 by making use of diverse women folk who he under no circumstances married. a guy who isn't searching for me to safeguard him, emotionally or financially.

Answer 11

i like men with the bold look. the best thing to do though is keep it short. Dont try to disguise it or cover it with stray hair. Maybe shave it?? not shaven completely just short.