how come i can`t?

Question

i can`t stop thinking bad stuff about my self,i am always depressed and thinks i am ugly since most people tell me that i am that`s because a boy i liked who never liked me cause he played me alot and told me bad things about my self now i can`t stop thinking about what he said what should i do

Answer 1

girl let the bastard talk if you know you not ugly then s**t f**k what other ppl gotta say can't nobody tell you how you look b/c didn't nobody make you but God so you need to tell that little boy to kiss yo natural black beautiful a** sorry for all the cursing hoped I helped

Answer 2

You've got no self esteem. You're so obsessed about your looks, you even posted this question in the beauty/style section as opposed to mental health.

Self esteem and confidence comes in time. If you want help in determining who you are and how to build your self confidence, I'd suggest getting rid of everything in your life that tries to tell you who and what you're supposed to be. Magazines, tv shows, friends, etc.

If you had enough self esteem, you wouldn't even listen to friendly advice given by total strangers who know nothing about you.

Answer 3

forget about him, everone is special in their own way, you don't need to go around trying to please other people. noone has the right to judge you. focus on the good thing you liek about yourself, and if you feel like somehing are wrong, think about ways to improve all those negativ thoughts, but you need to improvefor yourself, not for a guy, or for anyone else. hope this helps, and no one is ugly, ever person in this world is beautiful, and anyone that lets you belive that ur ugly, or anything negative, is something that doesn't deserve your friendship, forget about those people, and have fun, think about something else, or do something else to help get your head out of thinking about him. HOPE THIS HELPS!!

FYI- that guy is a dikc.

Answer 4

Girl-forget about that boy!!!!!1 You need to be you-you are special cuz no one is like you-find yourself first- you cant rely on anyone to make you happy or make you realize the qualities you have.Sux people are so mean-but get used to it and don't expect some boy to fix all your personal issues.

Answer 5

Don't ever let anyone bring you down. Take it from me I use let my ex tell me it was always me fault for everything and for the longest time i believed him. You just need to move forward and know that ur somebody and he nobody. We women need to stick together and protect ourselves from these boys that have no self esteem themselves

Answer 6

I`m sorry that that jerk face had to tell you that but no matter what he says you`ll always be pretty.Just remember that some guys are insensitive A holes.And make a list of all of your good qualities:)

Answer 7

f**k that guy! there's nothing wrong with you it's him with the problems! but don't let them know that's it's hurt you cause they'll keep doing it! your a beautiful person in many ways and don't deserve to be treated that poorly.....keep your head high cause you're better then them cause you wouldn't say stuff like that to them! you've got what they want and thats why they're treating you like s**t! good luck!

Answer 8

Come on, is that really what you think about yourself? You know you're beautiful, you know you're capable of anything. Don't worry about what anybody says, as long as you know you're an awesome person.

Keep your chin up, god didn't put us on this world to be thinking bad about ourselves and being sad all the time. :)

Answer 9

I'm sorry that you and the moron feel that way! You are beautiful and worthy of love. Don't let anyone bring you down because you are amazing. Good luck !

Answer 10

You need to spend more time with friends that you can trust and that lift your spirits. Also, read the Bible- it helps alot