We've always been really close, but suddenly they've started excluding me and ignoring me. They're accusing me of talking about them behind their back but they know I would never do that. I've tried talking to them but every time they just walk away. Now, they're whispering behind my back and everytime I try to talk to them about it they just say, "learn to trust us- we wouldn't do that". What should I do to still stay friends but learn what's going on?
2006-07-13 04:51:00 · 9 answers · asked by dogluva9 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The thing is I want to be friends with them. We're just so close- we've been neighbors for like 10 yrs.
2006-07-13 04:59:06 · update #1
Lyssie:
That is almost what I think happened. See, I'm really close to Mikaela, but Cecilia is really close( or wants to be) to Mikaela, and Nicole is Mikaela's sister, so maybe Cecilia started sayin stuff about me to make them not like me and like Cecilia? Let me know what you guys think.
2006-07-13 05:38:53 · update #2
If they don't trust you how can you trust them any more??? I have been threw a situation such as this one... What i did was try talkng to them and they said they were really mad at me and didn't want to.. so i decided that if they couldn't believe me and talk to me instead of going by the "rumors" then the weren't my true friends... i decided to hang out with new people and find my real friends... eventually they came and said sorry.. but i can never feel the same way about them anymore... and the reason that this whole rumor had started was because one of my friends was mad b/c me and my other friend were closer to eachother so she decided to tell her i was talking behind her back... how shallow is that???
Good Luck getting your friends Back!!! =]
2006-07-13 05:28:25 · answer #1 · answered by Lyssie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
k. thats happened to me before and mai mom is like the best person to talk to about those things.either they are probably jealous of you or, to be blunt, they just don't wanna be ur friend. but i think that they're jealous. try to make new friends, or is you alreably have toher friends hang wit them and just ignore your mean friends. sooner or later, they'll probalby be like "omigosh i wanna be friends or watever..blah la la" so on. they'll just get more jealous and stop talking about you and ask you to be friends again. but don't talk about them or ignore them behind their back cuz then you will be just like them. so do that or somethin else and see how that works out!
2006-07-13 11:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by slimjim. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is somethign going on... and you will have to be the bigger person. you will have to call there houses from a private number and talk to their parents! YEs! trust me.. you have to explain to the parents what is going on and get the parents to sit you down with them one by one and have them tellwhat is happening. or you can do a surprise visit and let them know how much they have hurt you and you want the truth and you want the pain to stop
2006-07-13 11:55:58 · answer #3 · answered by gotchafool05 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they dont trust u to trust them then they're not ur true frends.
find some other ppl. Ignore the punks. =l
2006-07-13 12:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by i_like_dogs725 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not your friends. They're egotistical, self centered, back stabbing b i t c h e s. Forget them and go find some real friends.
2006-07-13 11:56:46 · answer #5 · answered by rocknrobin21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They need to grow up and stop being like that. After high school they will learn.
2006-07-13 11:57:51 · answer #6 · answered by Mike Hunt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they aren't really your friends if they say things behind ur back i would say they are jealous
2006-07-13 12:55:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
these people are not your friends. Real friends would never treat someone like this. you deserve better
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2006-07-13 11:54:50 · answer #8 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
their jealous losers...and stop calling them ur friends
2006-07-13 11:54:15 · answer #9 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋