My 14 yr old keeps getting onto porn sites. I have had a cable bill of 400.00 and which i fixed with pw,,but on the puter,he types in 1 word, and man the porn sites pop up,,,,I want to set my computer along with the hubbys to TOTALLY NOT go on porn sites,,,I dont want either of us to go to jail for soemthing he does
2006-07-13 04:43:41 · 19 answers · asked by Kimmy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I WATCH MY CHILD,,,,,,I DO NOT LET FILTERS DO THE WORK FOR ME,,,I am a very protective parent and would have never thought in a million years that my child would be so into this, but I sure found out different. I came her for help, not to be told that i need to be the parent! I have whopped him, I have done everything,,,I turn off the puters, pw protected them and all. I just was just hoping someone could help me a little better.....THANKS ALOT FOR THE CRITIZISM!!
2006-07-13 05:40:53 · update #1
#1. No computer in his room, must be out in a common room
#2. Cannot use the internet when you are not home, take a wire out of the back and bring it with you when not home.
#3. take the tv out of his room... no tv in kids room period!
#4. Tell him, if you see anything bad on the computer in the history or otherwise, BANG, you lose the priviledge of the internet for a year!!! It is his choice.
2006-07-13 05:50:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Lock the computer down with a password. You also need to have the computer in the family room so that when he IS on it, you will be able to see what he does. When you are not home, lock it down. Seriously. Parents need to be proactive rather than letting some filter take care of watching their kids for them.
2006-07-13 04:51:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can install a porn filter software like NetDog on the computer,that help you to block all porn sites quitely in the background when he's surfing on the internet. http://www.netdogsoft.com
2006-07-14 01:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy him about 15 or 20 porn videos and send him to his room. Tell him he can't use the computer for porn but he can watch porn at home.
2006-07-13 04:46:59 · answer #4 · answered by cdslsmn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would suggest neither of them be allowed to get on the computer when you are not home. You can do this by taking the power cord, or however many cords you need to off the computer and take them with you.
2006-07-13 04:45:46 · answer #5 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just to get it out of his system i think u should keep him away from the computer in ur house and in school. cut the cable to basic channels only. tell his friends not to let him use the computer when he goes over and check his friends out to see if he is not being influenced by them as well.
2006-07-13 04:54:44 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That have blocks on Windows you can use and they also have a soft where you can buy. You should check in to them they can be free or cheep. Hope this helps you out some
2006-07-13 04:48:17 · answer #7 · answered by Spoosh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you be his filter, do what you are supposed to with your kid! Be a parent and dont allow it, hes only 14, whos the boss? You need to lay down the law and stand by what you say. Dont let him walk on you anymore!
2006-07-13 04:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
either watchguard...or oh...Norton works really good....and plus i think that you not only need a filter...but to limit his Internet access...and also be there with him while hes on...not necessarily be right next to him but be home and float in and out of the room periodically while hes on...as to limit the chances he has to be on one of those sites....
2006-07-13 04:48:15 · answer #9 · answered by raven wants it... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just make sure they are heterosexual porn sites! There is nothing you can do. Just make sure he isn't paying for it. There are plenty of free sites with short videos. Boys will be boys.
2006-07-13 04:46:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋