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2006-07-13 04:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by :-) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
OMG. All it's going to do is stress the h*ll out of your new wife. Don't put the responsibility of turning you straight on her! Be who you want to be- the BEST person you can be-before you are in ANY relationship. You can't give your whole self to someone when you aren't whole to begin with. Please think about how you could destroy this person's life!
2006-07-13 04:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by grandmastacos 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that he should because it would be like a disaster waiting to happen. Eventually some guy would come along that would catch his eye and then he'd be right back doing what he's used to. He should continue being friends with the woman unless he is absolutely sure that he's no longer interested in men or anyone as far as that goes. Marriage is something very special and should not be played with if both people aren't ready...
2006-07-13 11:32:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAD IDEA!!!
A person can not help being gay, and marrying someone just to avoid that life is doing nothing more than bringing someone into your personal unhappiness. Best bet it unless you are trying to help a friend from being deported or there is a LOT of money involved, just be yourself, not what society deems acceptable.
2006-07-13 11:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have personally seen a family torn apart by this. The man tried his hardest to please his family and did not accept his own homosexuality. He got married, had a kid and then realized that he could not lie to himself or his wife any longer. It wrecked him, wrecked the poor girl that he married and I'm sure it will scar the poor child.
Don't enter into a marriage if you aren't 100% certain of the vows you are taking.
You might think you can fool yourself, but you can't. You are who you are.
2006-07-13 12:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by iam1funnychick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be true to yourself and the woman you are marrying,because you can't get married on a lie that could create bigger problems in the future,just let her know and then if you both decide to get married,then good for you,if not is good too,because you were honest.
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2006-07-13 11:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by linrod 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A gay man shouldnt marry a woman thinkiing it will make him become straight. Its absurd and hell yeah will cause problems. You are who and what you are and damnit none of us can change that about ourselves...not for long anyway.
2006-07-13 11:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever consider that poor woman. Ok call me stupid but i don't think its right. What exactly to you mean he doesnt want to be gay? I f you are you are, is it a matter of choice?
2006-07-13 11:30:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think good idea becaue you dont know if gay men have aid or hiv and even they did once.... or many times. and now want to be married to woman???? If woman found out that he was gay ohhh boy it will cause a plm... once you gay you will always be gay. period.......
2006-07-13 11:49:13 · answer #8 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a question of choice.
2006-07-13 11:27:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋