We have lived together for 4 months and last month we had an issue were he was missing his girls (2 ages 9 & 13). Well he ended up getting them for the summer and now they were due to go back home next month and he is back on I will miss them thing. He told me it wasn't me, but him and that maybe he should not be living with someone. I've supported him since he came to CA for CO and even bough him a car, now he wants to bail. I told him to just go back now because next month it will be the same thing and the month after that the same and I don't have the time or the energy to deal. He accused me of not getting things for the house when we are out like I use too because he girls are here and my 6 year old son is not(visits his dad 2 weeks out of month). But I told him its because he has a job and if he sees we are out of someting he should go get it!!! Last month after he apolgized we agreed to work it out, well now I don't even want to try its not worth it to me. Am I wrong ?
2006-07-13 04:19:50 · 5 answers · asked by Kenya 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
WOW.....wen it comes to that...girls are always selfish....but not you.....His children should be the number 1 in his mind right now.......And yes u did the right thing....Follow what ur heart tells u and don't feel regretful............GOOD LUCK!!!!
2006-07-13 04:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Maria_missing_you♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you are not wrong. It seems that his attachment is stronger to his kids than it is to you (as it should be), but given that you all don't live in the same place, he should go where they are so he can be a better father to them and build a stronger relationship. Besides that, it looks ike he got used to you taking care of the house and of him and is not going to break out of that habit. He needs to go his way and you yours.
2006-07-13 04:26:18 · answer #2 · answered by julz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! His children should be is #1 focus in life and I applaud you for not being selfish.
2006-07-13 04:23:49 · answer #3 · answered by bebelucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u are not wrong but still spend more time with himas long as u can. but dont let him get away from him at all but let him see his kids or tell their mother to bring them down there were you are at.
2006-07-13 04:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your herat deeply in your heart you know what you want... Only yourself can realise it...Good luck
2006-07-13 04:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by Mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋