On YM he said he's not mad at me but at the end he put a "!".
2006-07-13 04:13:59 · 19 answers · asked by godsgirl135 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You're relationship is over. It's serious when they use the exclamation point.
2006-07-13 04:16:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not mad a you girl"!"...why would you even ask him that. if you know your bf so well you should know whether is is mad at you or not. you dont need to ask. That makes him get the impression on the other end that your guilty of something you know what I mean? Don't ask him if he's mad unless you think that he has a reason too...trust me..when i know my man is mad. I ask him out of syupidity if he's mad andhe tells me "NO!" but i know...But now i just let him be.
And if your using instant messager...when people type stuff it doesn't always have to sound the way it's written. It has no emotions. why don't you just talk to him in person if you think he's mad. But i relized asking that annoys my bf. so I dont bother. I feel ike im repeating myself.
But, you should know these things if you been with him for awhile.
When you talk to him over the phone...don;t ask him if he's mad at you. He's not going to tell you. YOU WILL TELL IT BY THE TONE OF HIS VOICE!
My bf does that too when were talking thru aim when im at work. Because I know the person that he is. We're both sarcastic and like to joke around. And we know eachother so well. (maybe because we life with eachother)
So I wouldn't even worry about it if I were you.
So don't always think of it in a negative way. If he wrote in big Caps maybe something is up.
good luck! =]
2006-07-13 11:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to actually sit down and talk about things. He probably doesn't know how to talk to you about what is upsetting you or you've brushed over the subject so he thinks you don't or won't talk about what is bothering him. You need a non-confrontational environment and be open minded when he finally opens up. The feeling isn't just going to go away until you take care of the problem.
2006-07-13 11:18:29 · answer #3 · answered by Frustrated employee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you judge only on the basis of an exclamation mark "!". What if that was inadvertent. It is too trivial. Don't make a mountain of a mole hill.
2006-07-13 11:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by Sanjeev 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think if you have done something wrong. If you haven't done anything wrong, don't worry about it. Don't waste your time thinking if he is mad and why. He may be trying to call your attention or trying to find and excuse to start a fight.
2006-07-13 11:18:47 · answer #5 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's maybe an accident or maybe he's tired of u askin him if he is tired and that little things don't bother him and if u ask him a stupid question of course he will get mad
2006-07-13 11:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by hellhammer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, maybe you typed some weird response to him that didn't make any sense
( like this question, for instance) and he got frustrated and just added the ! at the end.
2006-07-13 11:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by bluebutterfly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u fell like he is mad there is most likely something wrong stick with your heart but don't bug him too much he will come to u when he is ready
2006-07-13 11:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by unhappyinin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know if he dont seem to be the same when you two talk, if he is cold or unusually quiet.
2006-07-13 11:18:18 · answer #9 · answered by kris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that they do that so u can spoil him and give attention and thats what i dont get girls and boys fight about attention when they can just cooperate and give each other the same amount
2006-07-13 11:16:55 · answer #10 · answered by cup-cake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋