I am pregnant with my second child. I felt beautiful the first time. This time all I see is a whale in the mirror. How can I feel just a beautiful with this pregnacy? Does anyone have any sugestions?
2006-07-13 04:11:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Beauty & Style ➔ Skin & Body
Trin, hang in there lady. You'll make it through to the other side.
You might try meditating on Motherhood. The very beautiful thing that is hapening just below the surface. There's no greater mystery to a man or to a butch for that matter. LOL
If you are looking to feel desirable then just try to think of something more desireable than a mysterious woman.
That baby bump may look like a big ol' fat belly to you, but that's not what it is to the one that caused it. He sees you and sees himself growing in you. It preys on his mind how full you are of him. And just like in those "generic viaga" commercials say He'll have a "generous swelling of pride!"
Men are so easy. LOL
Women are so programed to feel bad if they aren't so thin that they look like little boys. It's a shame really. Some of us like a lady with some junk in her trunk, and think there should be some BBQ sause near by if there are ribs in their bed.
2006-07-13 13:20:25 · answer #1 · answered by Leather M 3 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Don't wear pregnancy panties to bed! Stick with the lacy, satiny kind. Do the things that made you feel sexy before you got pregnant. The only difference now is that you have this majical special extra thing that nobody else in the world has except you.There may be other babies, but not this special one. And even dad doesn't know how it feels to have (him/her) growing inside; so just love this time. If you aren't having more babies, you'll never get to feel this way again, so cherish each moment.
You are beautiful. All pregnant women are beautiful.
2006-07-13 04:23:57 · answer #2 · answered by Ivana Frump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl you can only be as sexy as you want to be. I had three kids and every time I felt wonderful and I gained alot of weight. Being pregnant is the most beautiful thing a women can be.
What I used to do was always made sure that I was dressed in nice clothes, my hair, nails makeup and anything else was always on, you cant let yourself go, even though I know sometimes you don't fell like doing all of that but you have to sometimes.
Always believe in yourself and always put yourself on the highest pedestal.
2006-07-13 04:21:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey....well i have never been pregnant but i have seen quite a few pregnant women around me....and if you just feel proud of being pregnant instead of looking at the fact that you put on weight....its not even called putting on weight its just different...there's a light inside you which u can find if you look its the happiness of being pregnant..and that light is your beauty...and then if you feel beautiful...u can wear some real sexy clothes and feel real foxy....
2006-07-13 04:17:21 · answer #4 · answered by lisoulostintime...... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't turn to the side, don't get naked in front of the mirror. And whatever you do...... DON'T LOOK DOWN!
You know you are sexy. That's what got you in the shape you are in, in the first place.
Congratulations on the new baby. It's tough with the second one. So get ready for some gray hair! :-)
2006-07-13 04:21:47 · answer #5 · answered by 35 goodlookinmalefrombalt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you are beautiful. Pregnant women are but sometimes it is hard for the preggy women to notice. Try dressing sexy. It always worked for me. Tell your man how you feel I'm sure he will tell you that you are sexy and foxy and being told always helps :)
2006-07-13 04:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by zara01 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where long silky night gowns, not the teddies but the long flowy gowns with spaghetti straps, take a bath and soak, lather your self with a ton of lotion to prevent stretch marks and something that smells great and leaves your skin feeling soft.... and drink regular beverages from a wine glass, there is no reason you can not use the finer things in life for everyday occassions....
2006-07-13 04:16:24 · answer #7 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being pregnant is beautiful and sexy. Don't worry only 2 more monthsâ¥
2006-07-13 04:14:39 · answer #8 · answered by ♥USMCwife♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear some nice clothes for pregnant women. And does your husband/boyfriend act differently with this pregnancy than the first. I mean the first time you were pregnant did he try his best to make you feel good about your appearance, and this time is he not trying as much.
2006-07-13 04:15:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you totally . I'm 8 months pregnant with my second child too. It seems the first pregancy goes smoother and you don't worry much and you feel and look gret. But this pregnancy you feel like you look like complete s***. even if someone tells u u look great. I just keep it in my head that no matter how sh*ty I think I look I know I look good to someone.
2006-07-13 04:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by lillady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋