My wife is beatiful and I don't want to lose her. I'm really so jealous so frustrated. Although I did't caught her on the act,but I Know for sure she betrays me while I'm a way in some business. I don't want to discuss it with her coz I' afraid I would lose her! Pls, Whjat should I do?
2006-07-13 03:58:06 · 20 answers · asked by Roman R 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
you shouldn't be with someone you can't trust. Even if she's drop dead gorgeos....why live this way. Get some self-esteem..if you got one pretty girl, you can get another....
don't be afraid to discuss this with her...this is a big deal...what if you bring children into this? Why would you want to stay with someone who might cheat on you?
2006-07-13 04:03:33 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
What kind of marriage do you have if you can't even go away for a day on business and you wife "betrays" you.
Around wisconsin here, we call it cheating but most times we spell it D I V O R C E. Why do you want to be in a relationship with no trust. Work some stuff out or just plain get out!
2006-07-13 04:03:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but you need to get some serious counseling. You're self esteem is too low. You feel like you don't deserve someone so beautiful and why would she want to be with you. Stop tearing yourself down. You'll end up pushing her away and making her want to cheat on you. Eventually you will lose her if your confidence and trust in her doesn't change. If you really think that she is cheating on you, then you need to love yourself and get out of this unhealthy situation. Stop torturing yourself. You can overcome this phase in your life. Good Luck friend.
2006-07-13 04:11:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try counseling. There seem to be some major trust issues floating around there, for both you and your wife. Assuming, of course, that she's actually doing anything and you're not just the insanely jealous/possessive sort thinking there's more going on than there really is. Even so, couples counseling would be good for both of you.
2006-07-13 04:03:36 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could hire someone to follow her around and take pictures if she's cheating on you while you're not around, but if she is cheating on you while you're not around then I don't think she really loves you so you should confront her and if it means losing her you'll have to deal with that because even though you may love her you deserve someone who will love you and won't cheat on you. It might come down to you having to leave her but you could get someone better. And if you confront her you can go to counseling to try and work things out but you should be with someone that you can trusdt. Youo have to have trust in a relationship.
2006-07-13 04:05:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lack of trust in a relationship is a major red flag! If you really love her, show her and tell her in every way. You should be able to talk about this....that you can't is red flag #2. You vowed to love forever....No woman wants to feel possessed but at the same time we want to know we're wanted and appreciated. Make sure she knows how much you love her, even when you're away! PS Can you bring her with you on trips??? Or maybe if you had children you'd feel more secure....hmmm....
2006-07-13 04:05:41 · answer #6 · answered by justme 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think she is betraying you you need to talk to her about it. even if she denies it you can usually tell something by her reaction which will either alleviate your fears or confirm them. If you truly can't trust her then there isn't anything you can do about it. If someone is going to be disloyal you can't stop them. and in my opinoin you should even waste the energy trying. If she is cheating on you the best thing you can do is leave her and find someone who actaully apprecaites you. She may be beautiful but if it is only skin deep than it is useless beauty. You don't deserve it or need it.
2006-07-13 04:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by pinkyduh1377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1: Private Investigator
2: Divorce Lawyer
2006-07-13 04:00:42 · answer #8 · answered by christopher s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is betraying you, she is not worth it the hassle. Beauty is only skin deep and there should be more to a marriage than looks. Confront her, maybe she is doing it for attention and that is an issue you BOTH would need to work on.
2006-07-13 04:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure or you just suspect? A jealous man is not a man I would want. They are clingy and needy. Have some backbone. If she is doing that dump her. There are too many fish in the sea to put up with that.
2006-07-13 04:02:59 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋