I have a boyfriend and we recently had a dilemma where I am feeling cramped. We aren't married, we aren't engaged. What's wrong with having a little time to myself and going to my other house when I want to? I don't go often in fact tonight would be the first night since things have gotten "serious" between us. I am just feeling like I want to be trusted and to have the type of relationship where we don't have to worry so much about each other committment-wise. He says he wants to marry me and I want to marry him too. We're talking about having a baby together and everything else. The wheels are definitely in motion (baby first). Should I have second thoughts about this relationship? He has a severe case of jealousy. I don't think I've ever dated a man who could become so jealous so easily.
2006-07-13 03:34:28 · 4 answers · asked by sweetypie9 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If he doesn't respect a little alone time now..........you have got problems. All telationships need some alone time. Baby first? I would rethink that one too. A little jealousy is a good thing......obsession is a whole different story. During your alone time tonight, you better re-evaluate this relationship. You will decide what is best for you, not him! Good Luck!!!!
2006-07-13 03:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Michael K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Re-evaluate! Big time. Jealousy in a relationship is a bad, dangerous, deadly thing. Jealousy can often lead to mental and physical abuse. If he can't trust you to be away from him for a night, you need to move on. And by all means, no baby!
2006-07-13 11:04:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you unsettled him.
men tend to think in logical progressions of their own making.
he will adapt, hopefully in a positive way.
I don't think you should be rushing into pregnancy just yet.
2006-07-13 11:04:55 · answer #3 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL I WOULD SUGGEST TO TRY TO TALK HIM TO HIM AND HAVE HIM CHANGE FIRST B/C IF HE DOESNT I WOULD SUGGESST U NOT TRY ANY COMMITMENTS WITH HIM ESPECIALLY A BABY
2006-07-13 11:00:28 · answer #4 · answered by JAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋