Please respond respectfully
2006-07-13 03:00:10 · 9 answers · asked by nj_finest00 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be u and don't worry about the rest. If you're happy who cares about the rest
But I know how people can make u question your confidence and self-security. It's fine. You know who you are. And I for one appreciate the fact that you are not running around being with women when u know u are gay. You seem responsible and honest.
2006-07-13 03:05:26 · answer #1 · answered by letmesurpriseu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a homosexual person you run a higher risk of getting HIV.
Statistically you run a higher risk of dying at a younger age.
Your question suggests that you are ambivalent about what you are doing, and that does not bode well for your own peace of mind.
I'm not going to get into all the religious arguments and recriminations that fly back and forth between homosexuals and religious persons, but please consider the fact that nature has made man to have sex with a woman and not another man.
You might ask yourself then whether or not the homosexual act is using your body in the way nature intended, and if not, what does that mean?
2006-07-13 03:52:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to some in this world being gay is not wrong, nor is it a sin. Shame on those who are telling you this for judging you and your life as anything other.
It is becoming a more and more acceptable belief that you are born gay. If you believe this than there is nothing you can do about it. It is not a choice. Who would chose this life.
I suggest you find yourself a theme song. One you can identify with and when these judgmental people tell you it's wrong, go play the song and realize you are exactly who you should be, and God loves you. I suggest "I am what I am" from la cage
2006-07-13 03:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You so have to listen to Gloria Gaynor's song ' I am what I am' (I've been told it's like a gay anthem actually)
I am what I am
I am my own special creation
So come take a look
Give me the hook or the ovation
It’s my world
That I want to have a little pride in
My world
And it’s not a place I have to hide in
Life’s not worth a damn
Till you can say
I am what I am
I am what I am
I don’t want praise I don’t want pity
I bang my own drum
Some think it’s noise I think it’s pretty
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle
Why not try to see things from a different angle
Your life is a sham
Till you can shout out
I am what I am
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
It’s one life and there’s no return and no deposit
One life so it’s time to open up your closet
Life’s not worth a damn till you can shout out
I am what I am
I am what I am
I am what I am
And what I am needs no excuses
I deal my own deck sometimes the aces sometimes the deuces
It’s one life and there’s no return and no deposit
One life so it’s time to open up your closet
Life’s not worth a damn till you can shout out
I am what I am
Oh I am
Oh I am
I am, I am, I am good
I am, I am, I am strong
I am, I am, I am worthy
I am, I am, I belong
I am
I am
Ooh ooh ooh ooh I am
I am, I am, I am useful
I am, I am, I am true
I am, I am somebody
I am as good as you, ah ha
Ah ha, ooh ooh ooh ooh yes I am
Ah ah ah ah
Doo doo doo doo I am
I am, I am, I am
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I am what I am (remix) - gloria gaynor 3:16
Written by jerry herman
Album: dance disco vol 1 mcps
It takes a lifetime to become the best
That we can be
We have not the time or the right
To judge each other
It’s one life and there’s no return
And no deposit
One life
So make sure you like what’s in your closet
Hmm hm, ooh ooh yeah
Hmm hm ooh ooh yeah, yeah ooh ooh
I am what I am
I don’t want praise
I don’t want pity
I bang my own drums
Some thinks it’s noise
I think it’s pretty
And so what if I love each sparkle and each bangle
Why not try to see things from a different angle
Your life is a sham till you can shout out
I am what I am
[i am what I am]
Ooh ooh hmm hm
Ooh ooh ooh ooh yeah
Hm hm hey hey
Ooh uh I am what I am
Am what I am
Needs no excuses
I deal my own deck
Sometimes the ace sometimes the deuces
It’s my life that I want to have a little pride in
My life and is not a place I have to hide in
Life’s not worth a damn till you can shout out?
I am what I am
I am what I am
I am what I am
I am, I am, I am, I am, I am I am what I am
I am what I am
I think it's oh so true, so just go on with your life and good luck for everything!
2006-07-13 03:40:19 · answer #4 · answered by Sylvia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's not bad at all.
What is bad is not beeing true to yourself. Trying to be someone you're not just doesn't work out.
In regards to the response about HIV. HIV doesn't ask anyone about their sexual orientation
2006-07-13 04:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Miss M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be who you are !! and be proud of who you are. i'm sick of all the discrimination.people need to check the skeletons, in their own lives. remember you only live once !!!!! so please enjoy life ,life is 2 short. don't worry about what other people think... you should always be # 1....
2006-07-13 03:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by babygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh to be 18 and gay again lol fun times
2006-07-18 14:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by me m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not bad live your life.
2006-07-13 03:37:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course its not.
you be just who you want to be and be proud of it
2006-07-13 03:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋