2006-07-13 02:57:21 · 16 answers · asked by a249703 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
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2006-07-13 03:00:08 · answer #1 · answered by h_wallbanga 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you two have discussed this and she isn't comfortable doing this or hasn't said anything in return about the subject; I would suggest you drop it. If you really do love and care for her, you should respect her reason given or lack of interest in it. Not every woman has fantasized about this. Some women feel that sex is between two people and those two alone, that sex is a communication regardless if its passionate or rough and nasty. Its two people connecting on an intimate level and she is giving her most precious gift to you and to invite someone else into the bed spoils the gift. And too, she could feel about this like some men say they feel about anal sex performed on them. If you are one who thinks you have a one way street there, then how would you feel if she bugged you to let her strap it on and do you?
2006-07-13 04:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every one here has made an excellent point!
If she has disclosed to you that she has bisexual urges, then she may be open to it. If she has not disclosed this, but you suspect it, you could "test" her out by sharing an xxx movie portraying 2 women together, and see if she is offended or accepting of it. Ask her during the movie if it offends her...Tell her that you think it's sexy. Wait for her reply, then go from there with the conversation. If she feels comfortable talking about her sexual desires with you, and isn't offended, ask her if she has ever thought about doing it. If she says yes, ask her if it has been a fantasy for her, then tell her you would be open to helping her fulfill it.
The most important advice I can give you here is this:
Many times, things like this have destroyed relationships!
If she isn't receptive, don't act like you are disappointed, she will NEVER trust you again.
If she wasn't offended and is possibly open to doing this, DON'T make her feel like IT MEANS EVERYTHING to you!
Sometimes, just sharing those thoughts is enough to spark a closer and more open sexual relationship with someone you love, EVEN IF IT NEVER HAPPENS!
With luck, as your relationship matures, with complete trust and honesty, it may eventually become a reality for you both in the years to come.
JUST DON'T PUSH IT!
Now....you also need to understand that to accomplish the desire you wish to fulfill within the "boundaries" of a "love" relationship, YOU must BOTH have complete trust and openness between you.
If you or she is the jealous type, go ahead and HANG IT UP NOW.
If not, then best wishes for a satisfying "open" relationship!
2006-07-13 03:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by FrEaKoNaLeAsH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What if you ask her and she does it, but then decides she would rather be with a woman than you? How would that make you feel? Or better yet...what if she asked you to have sex with another man?
2006-07-13 03:22:57 · answer #4 · answered by sweetestthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you not man enough for her?? You should not force anybody do something that they are not comfortable with. If it is something to do just to full fill your perverted fantasy then watch a porn movie. What if she likes having sex with her more then you? What if she starts to like her more than you? Well..tough luck for you is what I say. I hope she does hook up with another girl just to prove how lame some men can be...now I said some men...I did not say all men...lol
2006-07-13 03:28:00 · answer #5 · answered by SweetCoco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself if you would be willing to have sex with another man. If the answer is no, then you shouldn't be asking your GF to do something you wouldn't be willing to do. It works both ways dude!
2006-07-13 03:14:19 · answer #6 · answered by Harry_Cox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To test the waters take her to a strip club and ask her if she wants a lap dance. TAKE LOTS OF MONEY. If she like it see if she wants another and another etc. Tlke to the girls after the dance, buy one a drink and visit. Repeat as necessary.
Alot of girls don't really realize that they will like it until they do something like go to a strip culb. I know a LOT of girls that have had 3sums after visiting my club. I have even been a big part of them.
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2006-07-13 04:53:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't. You should not attempt to force her to do anything like this that might compromise her moral standings.
Also why do you want her to be with another woman. To fulfill a sexual fantasy of your? Is she not woman enough for you? Do you not love her.
If she does not fulfill your sexual desires by herself, then are you going to cheat on her? Why are you with her? You should ask yourself soem serious questions first. Think about what you are asking her to do for you and your sexual lust.
2006-07-13 03:10:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
discuss it with her and be totally open and honest with her,will you want to join in or just watch?one thing that will help,,tell her that you want her to do it ,and ask her to dress you like a girl too,she will love doing it and so will you,being dressed in a skirt and heels and all watching her with another girl
2006-07-15 15:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by cindyxdresser 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not deserve your girl friend. I feel sorry for her. You can't make her do anything. You're a pervert and a sad person.
2006-07-13 15:54:48 · answer #10 · answered by i_am_nathan_2002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start watch porn in presence of ur gf and other woman.
2006-07-13 03:08:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋