cause everyone around you expect a beautifil gf and if u don`t have then people are started being sercastic....then u r scared that what ur parents and friends don`t like her ... but this doesn`t matter to me ....cause I love her so much that I will go anylength to have her.Please understand the circumstances,I m not being afraid of the people...it`s just what if those happen....and what could I do....As a person she is a execellent,more than I could have asked for ...but she don`t get the looks and a ok bodyshape.Will my affection towards her will fade away.I never let her feel that the fact is, ....I just wanted to know.....I just don`t know ..what to do... should I go for my feelings...By the way, we met each other on net and we are for about 5 months ......please give me good suggestion....
2006-07-13 02:41:46 · 13 answers · asked by answerer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you love her then NOTHING else should matter. She is a good person, she loves you. What more can you ask for. There is too much emphasis on "how someone is suppose to look". People are too shallow and often don't see the good in someone who is not "not so pretty". They don't take the time to get to know them, they form an instant judgment on looks alone. If your family and friends don't like her because she doesn't look a certain way, then they are very shallow. I would let them know that you love her, she loves you, and that's all that matters.
Don't ever question if your affection for her will fade. If it does, it won't be because of the way she looks, you already love her the way she is.
Be happy that you found someone who is a good person, and loves you and makes you happy. Its your life and never worry about what other people think. Enjoy your relationship to the fullest.
2006-07-13 02:51:49 · answer #1 · answered by allyp51 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Pardon me for saying so, but I think you are extremely concerned with what others think. I have a wonderful girlfriend: not stunningly attractive, but cute (athletic as hell), but I'm not exactly a GQ model either. But we treat each other damned good, and respect and love each other. Team that up with the fact that I don't give a flying f*** what anybody else on the entire planet thinks about anything, and the whole situation seems to work quite nicely. By the way, I'm 49 and she's 27 (and we're having a baby in September), so the situation is, how you say, unconventional? So, to all of the wannabe critics out there in cyberspace... F*** OFF!!
2006-07-13 02:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you are describing is "mature love." That's what so many people aim for and never attain. Some, unfortunately, don't even know it exists. You are blessed to have found it.
The love you describe is what happens when people have been together for many years, and their physical beauty may have faded. The love, however, in those instances just grows deeper and more profound with time.
Don't be concerned with what anyone thinks or says with the exception of you and the person you love. As long as she feels an attraction to you, there is nothing to worry about.
Go forward, and build your love and trust with each other. I hope you're both very happy!
2006-07-13 02:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty fades, dear one.
Be an adult, and appreciate your girlfriend for how she makes you feel. When your friends or parents say something about her unattractiveness, explain that it is her heart and her mind you are in love with, and that transcends any outward appearances. I don't pick you apart, do I?
It is immature to give much credence to what people say about you. You need to live for your heart and your happiness.
Blessed be a strong man.
2006-07-13 02:47:47 · answer #4 · answered by rrrevils 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should follow your heart - looks are not everything. It is only what you think & feel that matters in this situation. any one who may have a problem at first will get used to it & eventually (even if they are shallow) they will see the wonderful person that you do. Go for it! You will regret it if you don't.
2006-07-13 02:45:45 · answer #5 · answered by savagescorpio 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-06 07:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people choose style over substance, you chose differently. If she is a good person and gives you what you need and want, what does it matter? Forget everyone else and what they have to say. You are her boyfriend, they are not. Follow your heart. Not your eyes.
2006-07-13 02:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by hateizmybestfriend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea i can relate to that....you say you really luv her. If you're telling the truth then nobody should care what she looks like. She's still a person, ya know. You'll be making a big mistake if you let her go. She sounds like a really great girl.
Man, i can really relate to that.....
2006-07-13 02:50:27 · answer #8 · answered by Meg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen, it dosen't what ppl says if u watch what they say u will never make it in life. if u really love her then stay with her plz i'm syre she feels the same way. you know that true love is so hard to find why you want to throw away what you got. tell ur friends to respect ur decision or otherwise GO TO HELL!!!
2006-07-13 02:47:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u like her and love her then u should be with her even if she ant that good looking. but be good to her and it will make ure life happy and you be agood man and she will aways be there for u and for ever. u will have a happy life with her. but you should live even if she ant cute cause everyone is not perfect and cute enough for anyone.
2006-07-13 02:48:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋