Is it normal for a girl to feel that.I am disturbed.What do i make of it?
2006-07-13 02:38:24 · 14 answers · asked by sanjay and renu 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
HEY at least she is being up front with you. Right ?
And Honest right to your face...
You gotta give the girl credit where credit is do!!!
2006-07-13 04:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like she doesn't think you are capable of going without sex if your gone for 3 months. I think that would upset me, lack of trust. Talk about the issue with her, and assure her that you will not have sex with some one else because you love her. And if the only reason you two are together is because of sex then it's not a loving relationship. Sex is icing on the cake if it's good for both of you in a relationship but it's never a good reason or excuse to do with some one else if your in a commited long term relationship. Having sex with some one else might be exciting but long term it never leads to any thing good. Tell her that...you know that she's the best thing that ever happened to you, and you will do nothing to risk your relationship because you trust her, and hope she trusts you too....talk it over....work it out...and Maybe in the 3 months meet each other once a month in between to see each other....Solution rather than create future problems....
2006-07-13 09:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by allwomanequalpercent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, what do you mean by meet? I would hope that you have as you have been involved for three years.
However, if she is willing to walk out over getting some, you are better off without her. As an involved couple for some time now, you should understand that sex is more than simply release and sex, that it is a bond of intimacy, especially to women. This being the case, you should not want to be with a person that wants to take this act of intimacy and share it with any Joe that comes along.
2006-07-13 09:44:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's normal for a girl to feel; left out in that way, but you've been in a relationship for three years? Come on. she shouldnt give up that easily. whenever you meet her, let her know that if she really loves you, she can wait a few months. That's true love.
2006-07-13 09:47:20 · answer #4 · answered by Child of Coal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while as human we are bound to such urge but then we have the ability to control ourselve that is why we are different from other animals. so the first thing i will say, is that your girlfriend really love you?. becuase if she loves actually not matter the urge, she will be fiathful to you and control herself. secondly, she may be treaten with nurtion the farer you are to the easier you will lure by other girls. so she is not ascertain of who you in term of trust. so make sure you give her full assurance of trust and faithfulness and i'm sure she to will selfcontrol herselt.
2006-07-13 10:06:57 · answer #5 · answered by haggizaro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go rent What's Love got to do with it and imagine yourself as Ike Turner.
2006-07-13 10:41:26 · answer #6 · answered by King Midas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we all have needs. but respect is the base to every good relationship, you should look into keeping her happy. maybe phone sex
2006-07-13 09:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by warmplayboy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, that's bad.
I haven't seen my guy in almost two years and I don't go off hanging with any other guys.
2006-07-13 09:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Indhy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats cold...shes really strict about relationship...-__-
2006-07-13 09:40:53 · answer #9 · answered by dark_hands135 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she's honest. You've been warned, so keep her happy.
2006-07-13 09:45:49 · answer #10 · answered by Tokoloshimani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋