me and my guy have been together for about 2years last night i get a call from a girl asking me a hundred and one questions so she tells me they have been together 2 and a half years ok this is the turning point she called me last year asking but indeed he admitted that they were juts having sex for a while but know relationship so i say ok who is it gonna be he says me of course so last night she was in his house took his phone saw the nightly text that i send that says i love you so i am like ok whats up he calls he goes baby i swar to god i did not know that girl was in the house he said her and my sister is cool but i was in the bed he does landscaping 10 hours a day he said when i got home i did not even get a bath i was drained and tired so baby i sware i had no idea what should i believe or do
2006-07-13 02:16:08 · 10 answers · asked by Stacy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call the girl yourself and get some proof from her. If indeed he is playing around, she should have dates and times, pictures or something to prove her point. If he is a liar, you need to catch him at it.
2006-07-13 02:22:22 · answer #1 · answered by tobinmbsc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to go with your gut instinct. Some women are liars to get what they want.
I had one tell me that my man was a player and that they had been involved for 1 1/2 years off and on. I told her she wasn't in the bed with us, so I don't know when you had the time. I also said, he and I play very well together. She had nothing to say.
I wasn't too upset because at time I had just left him to return to my home state and felt like if you move your feet you loose your seat. My girlfriend said "girl don't trip, she wants the same thing you want. All are single so it's fair game." Roll up your sleeves and give her hell. My friend left his family and friends and moved with me 250 miles away. Don't trip, handle your business.
2006-07-13 09:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of woman is it??? nice or arrogant. open and wondering or competitive and willing to win him over? find out. if you feel kind of sympathie for her, go and fix a meeting where the two of you can finally meet and talk your hearts out! maybe, you'll find out what a liar you boyfriend was to both of you. you could maybe even end up both dumping him together and make him feel bad. but just do such a thing if you're aware that she is upset and you kind of like her and you feel both the same.
believe me, i would consider to dump this guy of 2 1/2 years. for sure... GOOD LUCK
2006-07-13 09:27:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. He cheated on you and expects you to accept it. This guy is not worth keeping around. What? What? He called the cops and had the girl arrested for breaking and entering into his house??
2006-07-13 09:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and her should set up a meeting with out him knowing, just have him walk in and see the 2 of u, then give the both of u answers... Hes a looser living a doubble life let him go u deserve better that that...Goog Luck
2006-07-13 09:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by KelLzZz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you had no idea his ex still came around even to hang with his sister, then somethings up...but I'd do alittle more investigating before I believed his story...something is fishy about he and the ex...be aware.
2006-07-13 09:25:17 · answer #6 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got to be kidding! Dump the chump. How stupid does he think you are to think you would fall for that? You deserve better than someone else's leftovers.
2006-07-13 09:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by arkiemom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be so naive!!! Open your eyes and see the truth instead of putting on the blinders and seeing what you want to see.
2006-07-13 09:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmmmm. NO...... well ask this girl for Proff the they have been together ..... but only if u think this guy is really worth the trouble........ if not then why waste u'r time ..... better to of found out not then when u guys get married ...... u no........ also ask him for his cell phone BILL...... Duh or heres Proff should be there!!!!
2006-07-13 09:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by •°♥Ms. SeXy♥°• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I is not help you now!!!! Ha HA hA ha
2006-07-13 09:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋