2006-07-13 01:47:57 · 21 answers · asked by nichola h 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
ok think i need to explain myself better here lol i am 28 and single but am really maternal and feel that my time may be running out fertility wise as i have never tried to get pregnant i dont even know if i can so dont want to leave it too late to find out as if i cant then i would need to go thru ivf n all that can take years obviously i would prefer to wait till i have found the right person to settle down with and have a family first but say i dont meet that person or its too late for me when i do?i would like to try through a clinic but im not sure where to even start and im under the impression u have to be part of a couple i dont want to take the chance of having a one night stand for obvious std's reasons can anyone give me some advice please? heeeeeeeeellllllllp?
2006-07-13 02:03:46 · update #1
im from north east scotland
2006-07-13 02:19:00 · update #2
Maybe nature is trying to tell you something. Like, don't have a fu.cking baby you bi.tch.
2006-07-13 07:05:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You need to figure out where u are in urlife first of all.
Your bi - in other words u can't pull so though you'd double your chances by taking whatever comes first.
Single - having a child is one of the most challenging things you will ever have to do and to go into it knowing you will be doing it on your own is irresponsible.
Having a child with only one partner is niave and silly. Wait until your more settled in your life before you even think about bringing a child into it all.
2006-07-13 01:50:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to be part of a couple, but it would work and shouldn't be a problem if you are bi. Unless of course you are afraid the live sperm donor would want parental rights and you want this child all to yourself. Here in the states there is a company that is relatively affordable named xytec. Try researching on the net artificial insemination companies.
2006-07-13 04:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are bisexual, why not just do it the normal way. Being single shouldnt stop you, Have a 1 nighter if need be
Find a willing donor, buy a turkey baster and do it yourself, then explain to your child when they are old enough that you used a baster to have them.
2006-07-13 01:51:02 · answer #4 · answered by onename 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're single, why do you want to deliberately become a single parent?
And, if you're bisexual, why not use a known donor?
Or is that you don't want any outside interference from the donor? (father) if that's the case, then use a clinic
2006-07-13 01:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Mummy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you have not said your age. You might be to young. Im not sure on this. Why dont you go to the clinic and ask them about it, they would know best. Good Luck
2006-07-13 01:49:52 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just adopt a child. There are tons of children that need a family.
Adoption Link:
http://www.adopt.org/
2006-07-13 11:46:24 · answer #7 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to a Dr and line up a donor, Good Luck!
2006-07-13 01:48:58 · answer #8 · answered by GRUMPY1LUVS2EAT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, go see your doctor, Let me talk to my wife, Maybe we can help.. Although I like to take the natural rout, which may be acceptable to you since my wife is into that sort of thing also.. Get back to us...
2006-07-13 01:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out and get laid.
maybe hang around the hospital and chat up a doctor
he will have clever spunk.
then you can have clever sprog.
or i could send some in the post, but then u could end up with a stupid sprog.
2006-07-13 01:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My view is, if you don't want the sex or the guy, then you have no right to the sperm. But hey, you'll be okay, co's there's so many dumb guys out there.
2006-07-15 07:58:41 · answer #11 · answered by Veritas 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋