and dont say its because im a weirdo!
2006-07-13 01:42:50 · 18 answers · asked by tammy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think you try to hard to be a people person,friendly,kind caring,and you probably no this, try to listen but not to put so mutch heart and feeling into what these gies say at first, give it a couple of conversations first
2006-07-13 01:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by TO FAST TO FURIOUS 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh honey, like attracts like, I am sorry. It may be the most valuable lesson that I have learned in 36 years.
Think about it, normal people aren't nice to freaks and weirdos. you attract them because you are likely nice and simply a good person. The weirdos look for that. About normal people and freaks, normal people just walk on by... rudely if they have to, but they walk on by. They don't say hi to the weirdo or the freak. They tend to look down the nose at a strange person and dismiss them.
It really is ok if the freaks and the weirdos are what you get along with. You gotta admit they are fun and interesting people.
Blessings sweetie. Good luck with this...
2006-07-13 01:52:30 · answer #2 · answered by nik named mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They might not be weirdos to anyone but you! You are probably only willing to see a certain "type". Sometimes if you go outside the box and spend time talking to people you wouldn't normally hang out with, you will find that they have more in common with you than you thought. I used to think I'd never go out with a "fat" guy. Then one day I met a guy in a bar that was just great. Funny, great conversation, laughed alot, and he was fat. That guy changed my whole outlook because it dawned on me after, I didn't care about his size, I was having the best time ever. He opened my eyes...let me really "see" people, not the way they look or dress. To this day, I never judge a person by his "cover". I give everybody the same chance. Maybe you should try it. Who knows, it might change your whole outlook on life and you'll not miss out on some special "weirdo" that just might turn into the love of your life!
2006-07-13 02:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Phyl(lis) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you do you meet these weirdos and freaks. If you are spending time at the bar you will probably meet weirdos and freaks. Nice men go to church and Bible study and volunteer work and college. If you are interested my wife met a guy on christainmatchmaker.com who is neither a weirdo or a freak.
2006-07-13 01:47:11 · answer #4 · answered by Bags 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you approach them in a different way than you approach other people. If you started to hang out with these "weird" people in the first place, you feel good among them, and it is a safe place to be, a group you can relate to in some way. I don't know, maybe I am on to something here..
John
2006-07-13 01:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by Scorpion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Batman
2006-07-13 01:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Yahoo answer dude 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you consider weirdos and freaks? Maybe you are too prudish and uptight.
2006-07-13 02:01:31 · answer #7 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat. I wish I could answer the question, but I'm trying to find out why too!
2006-07-13 01:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Astro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are putting out some kind of energy that attracts these types.
2006-07-13 01:45:15 · answer #9 · answered by GratefulDad 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The way you dress?
The way you act?
The way you talk?
The places that you hang out?
The friends you keep?
None of the above???
2006-07-13 01:45:40 · answer #10 · answered by lampoilman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋