In the words of Ricky Bobby, my wife is "Smokin' red hot." She 39 and looks 18. She recently had her breasts enhanced to 38C and is about 5'7" with blonde hair, green eyes and weighs about 105. she is very pretty and has a great face and teeth. she also has a great personality and is a local TV personality so everyone knows her.
Men have always oggled her but lately women are coming on to her.
It's a bit strange. I mean, we are happily married and she always laughs off the men, but now that the women are coming on to her, she's been very quiet about it.
This really bothers her and she isn't trying to illicit responses from either men or women. she dresses nice, but not extremely sexy to garner flirting.
Any advice on what to tell her.
2006-07-13 01:31:22 · 9 answers · asked by DrBigShoes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Isn't she getting the attention she was seeking? Most women get their breasts enhanced not only to feel more attractive, but to LOOK more attractive to others. Is it possible that she actually enjoys the attention from other women and doesn't know how to tell you? Maybe that is why she is quiet. If the opposite is true, she may need to see a therapist or consider having a breast reduction. Either way, as her husband, I suggest you try speaking to her and being supportive regardless of what she tells you. If you want her to be truthful, make her feel comfortable and don't judge.
2006-07-13 01:44:25 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs.King 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly they shouldn't act shocked even as they're became down. that is ridiculous. yet i imagine that's common and by no potential this sort of large deal if that's purely very possibility free flirtation. some adult men even do this in the front of their different halves, and it would not might want to be this sort of poor element... it easily relies upon on the body of thoughts human beings take about it. yet once you're speaking about complete-on "hey babe allow's bypass to dinner and a movie"... that is a distinct tale.
2016-11-06 07:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over herself!! She should be flattered that people are attracted to her. If she is that bothered by it tell her to stop wearing makeup, dressing nice, and have a breast reduction. Given the choice I'm sure she will be fine with women and men hitting on her.
2006-07-13 01:39:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as a compliment and leave it at that. You can't let every look and comment bother you or you'd be miserable. Besides she might look 18 now but who knows what she'll look like at 50. Be greatful to wonderful genes.
2006-07-13 01:36:09 · answer #4 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did security work for quite a few years and seemed to get sent to Gay & Lesbian gigs all the time.The best response I found was to say, "I'm flattered but I'm not that way inclined." Worked for me. Got rid of them without upsetting them.
2006-07-13 02:48:16 · answer #5 · answered by red260z 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to take it as a compliment and not to look into it any further then that. If she is proud of her looks then she shouldn't even bother with what other people think!!
2006-07-13 01:38:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
since both of you loves each other, she need not to go into any relationship neither with a guy nor gal. they are all tempertation. dressing good isn't a crime! keep up dear!
2006-07-13 01:42:52 · answer #7 · answered by nini g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is useless without pictures.
2006-07-13 01:35:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just ignore
2006-07-13 01:48:05 · answer #9 · answered by usmchawkeye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋