I have been split up with my ex for almost 6 weeks now and I constantly think about him, I have had 4 boyfriends since him but I recently saw him with his new girlfriend who is butt-ugly. He treated me really badly and he told me he just wanted himself and his friends, so I ended it and now he is with a new person. He says he is only with her to forget about me, but I cant forget about him, all he done was hurt me so why am I thinking about him? The last thing I would want on this earth would be to get back with him but I can't get him off my mind?? some help would be good.......
2006-07-13 01:07:42 · 9 answers · asked by tinkerbellcarly86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Is it the possibility that he was your first love, they are the hardest to get over, and you never forget them. As for the 4 boyfriends that seems more like rebound relationships. Take this time for yourself, make your life about you that is all you need to concern yourself with. Get a manicure or pedicure, go to a spa, get a new doo. If you can afford it go on a cruise. This is your time, enjoy being young it doesn't last forever. Love will fall in your lap when your not looking for it. Good Luck.
2006-07-13 01:14:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now the reason you still think about ur ex- is because you still love him and care for him! But u don't know that you lovehim yet. Maby try talking to hm about your problem, about thinking about him so much lately, and talk to him about getting back together and maby going out t lunch, or dinner sometime. And i bet you he still has the same feelings for as you do him and if you do go out to lunch or anthing at all her will give you a kiss all guys are like that!
2006-07-13 08:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For boyfriends in six weeks? Wow. Fast. Well the fact that he's only with her to forget about you could mean that he still has feelings for you - but if he's hurting you then move on.
2006-07-13 08:11:54 · answer #3 · answered by Me. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 weeks is a short period of time for the healing process, and yet you have had 4 other men, were you thinking about your ex when you were with them? let yourself heal, in time you wont think about him anymore except all the negative things he has said and done to you AND keep in mind that he is an ex for a reason!!!
2006-07-13 08:13:30 · answer #4 · answered by darla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"I have been split up with my ex for almost 6 weeks now and I constantly think about him, I have had 4 boyfriends since him (you said) .............you don't hang about do you love ? I think of my ex wife every time i wipe my ****, so what ?
2006-07-13 08:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by dave w 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do things to forget him. Just think you are lucky you are not with him if he was horrible to you. Now its your turn to stay single and have fun with your mate/friends and just enjoy life with out boys.
2006-07-13 08:11:23 · answer #6 · answered by Pinkflower 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR YOU AND YOUR EX NEED TO SET DOWN AND TALK ABOUT THIS AND ASK GOD TO HELP YOU BOUTH FOR YOU SEE IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO GOD BECUSE THIS MAN WAS DOING YOU WRONG GOD WILL HELP YOU FIX YOUR PROUBLE ONE WAY OR THE OTHER JUST BELIVE IN GOD IT MIGHT TAKE TIME BUT FOR NOW YOU GO YOUR WAY DONT LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU CANT LIVE WITH OUT HIM LET HIM THANK YOU DONT CARE ANYMORE YOU WILL SEE HIM COME RUNNIG BACK PLAY HARD TO GET BACK YOU KNOW HOW IT IS DONE BUT KEEP ON PRAYING GOOD LUCKY MAY GOD BLASS YOU BOUTH
2006-07-13 08:31:29 · answer #7 · answered by LINDA L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 boyfriends in 6 weeks...
hw abt being my 1st girlfriend this week
2006-07-13 08:26:02 · answer #8 · answered by jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want what you can't have, not an unusual human trait, get over it.
2006-07-13 08:12:01 · answer #9 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋