Why does he want this, i go out feeling not quite clean because it is always after I have showered and to late for me to shower again.
2006-07-13 00:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by easyalice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It sounds like your husband is trying to mark you as his by having sex with you before you leave. It's a very real reminder to you that you belong to him so he probably believes that it will make you less likely to sleep with other men on your night out.
He probably thinks that when you dress up for your night out, you look really hot and can't resist you.
Try to take this as a compliment. He loves you and wants you to remember it. I'm surprised that it makes you feel 'not quite clean'. When I make love, I feel great afterwards and love to have my man's scent on me. Trust me, no one will notice. If it bothers you so much just spray on a little more perfume or body spray before you leave.
2006-07-13 01:04:28 · answer #1 · answered by Fluorescent 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is without a doubt jealousy and insecurity.
He doesnt want you to go out at all really and he needs to convince himself that you are his before you go out.
You are dirty but only with him
You wont need to get any more if youve just had it.
This will soon start to wind you up and the jealousy and insecurity will develop further
2006-07-13 09:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by gutted 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just say NO!!! and that you will when you get back.
how often has he done this?
how long you been married? sounds like he has no trust.
in a marriage there needs to be trust, respect and communication!!!
it is not "make love" when forced to have sex when you dont want to. it is just having sex.
maybe give yourself only enough time to shower ,dress and then leave to go out with friends. no time to stop.
2006-07-13 08:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is definately worried that yo will cheat on him .Why don't you shower with him then have sex in the shower after you can wash yourself then get ready to go out.
2006-07-13 09:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by pig m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh my god, are you that stupid that you can't work it out?
He thinks if the last thing you do before you go out is have sex with him then the last thing your going to do on a night out with the girls is bed anybody else because the only thing that should be on your mind when your out is the mad sex you just had with him.
He sounds a bit jealous.
2006-07-13 08:01:56 · answer #5 · answered by London girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he's insecure, and he wants to make love to you before you go out, so that you won't be looking at men (?for sex) when you re out with your girlfriends
2006-07-13 08:02:26 · answer #6 · answered by B F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, think about it... how likely are you to hop into a hot and heavy session with a new guy if you smell like booty with your husband? just like the thing about a girl not shaving before a date if she doesn't think she is going to get some... just crazy logic.
2006-07-13 11:52:37 · answer #7 · answered by living this life 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martic is absolutely right. He is marking his territory!!! He wants you to smell like sex so the other guys don't come near you. My husband tried that with me and I just tell him NO!! Try it!
2006-07-13 08:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its because you smell sweet and nice after showering...
and then the bloke says 'you smell nice' and bam! he starts to seduce you...
and then you have to reshower all over again..
the best way is to ask him not to attack you after but before you shower...
2006-07-13 08:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by lonely as a cloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the name thing. He obviously don't trust you and somewhere along the way you gave him a reason not to.
2006-07-13 08:00:03 · answer #10 · answered by scheib65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋