I have three wonderful kids and a partner who has cheated now i know everyone will say im stupid for still being with him and i think im numb to everything thats going on im constantly weighing out the good from the bad and am just going around in circles will it ever stop.
2006-07-13 00:51:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is possible to get over him cheating. It takes time and total honesty from both of you. My husband cheated and we are still together. My husband's was a one time deal. If it was a full blown affair I won't still be married today. He also knows that if it ever happens again I will leave him. Hang in there and follow your heart.
2006-07-13 01:03:30 · answer #1 · answered by surfergirl77550 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Emma,
It takes time. It is like being in a room full of smoke and u cant find the door! Take it easy on yourself, betrayal is very hard to deal with and heals slowly. Is he sorry and is the affair over? If not then I think for your sanity you should move on. It is hard enough when he is sorry and the affair over. It takes a long long time to trust him again and somedays you will drive yourself mad. But eventually... you get back to the mark. Best of luck and love x
2006-07-13 01:05:48 · answer #2 · answered by madgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thry to se in real mean to find why are you steal with him. ask your self deaply inside when are you not so emotional the resanes why are you staying. but know you can allwayes move on and get it better. do not be afraid. if he makes you feel bad and make you to change your self in bad way go. if he is the real one he ll do everything for you. BUT MAN ARE USULY AFRAID MUCH THAN WE AND THEY ARE BIG CRYBAYBES. if you have time to change his pampers ok. do not think what others say, you are here important more than people around. you have to live life.
2006-07-13 01:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by IcyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart,hon. I'm one that if I'm cheated on once,that's it.Happened to me in the recent past. I just could never trust him again.
However if you want to work things out,lay down your ground rules and stick to them.
Best Wishes!
2006-07-13 01:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by moonstruck_ru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to get over someone cheating, but it takes time. You have to rebuild the trust.
2006-07-13 00:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can get over it but if u stay with him u just going to have insecurities with him wich is not good for the relationship it just going to make it worse
2006-07-13 02:06:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋