I mean that when we fall in love,we become very happy.But when love is lost we become disappinted.It makes us unhappy.I want to ask love is good or bad before marriage
2006-07-13 00:36:27 · 15 answers · asked by Babali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
happy if BOTH want it.
2006-07-13 00:38:52 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Falling in love is happiness. Being in love is happiness. It's when you stop loving that it's unhappiness.
Love's always good as long as you don't start over-expecting from it when it comes to marriage. It's good to know that you want to really spend the rest of your life with someone, rather than blindly going for it and then wondering whether you really can survive it.
But always remember.. love or no love... marriage will always be a 50-50 chance, a risk that we all have to take. So go for what comes your way first, the love or the marriage, and just hope for the best
2006-07-13 07:41:18 · answer #2 · answered by conspicuous 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are always ups and downs in every relationship, whether it's with friends, siblings, parents, in-laws. Anyone you become close with because there will always be at least one thing people don't agree on. When you meet someone and you think they may be "the one" -- and they end up hurting you, then it hurts. It is just part of life. We laugh and we cry because we are human. We get our feelings hurt sometimes but you can't just give up and live in a cave. I think that would be a lot more unhappy than not having people in your life. You never know when a special person will come into your life. When you think of the alternative -love mostly does make you happy.
2006-07-13 07:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by butterfliesRfree 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a good thing. Falling in love, finding that one special person, getting married, all these things are good things that are to be rejoiced. But sometimes you find someone that you think is the right person, but it turns out that he/she isn't, then of course you'll be unhappy, but you'll eventually get over it.
But if you're getting married, and things get serious, then it's obviously not bad. But when you get married, or have children, there also comes a lot of responsibility. That doesn't necesarily mean that that will make you unhappy also, it just means that you have a family to take care of and you should be faithful.
Always be happy if you have love. If you're already in love, and are about to get married, then, congratuations!
2006-07-13 07:48:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now that is a very silly question, people don't fall out of LOVE, they may fall out of lust, or really like, but not LOVE. I think people think they are in love when they really aren't they are infatuated, in love with the idea of being in love, or some such other thing. You may lose a love but you never stop loving a true love. If you can have even 1 minute with a true love it would be worth any pain you might have to endure at losing one. It is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all.
2006-07-13 07:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jim C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all i can say is love is DIFFICULT u know just as u said it may make us the happiest person on the earth if the other one is just the perfect mate or it would simply make u the saddest person ever , it depends on this person and on the other hand , it has something to do with destiny , u know ... i've always believed that there is " someone " for " everyone " . if u see what i mean so all i can say is ... hmmm ... just don't think about its consequences , go on and whatever the result may be , what's the worst thing that may happen ? a broken heart ? it isn't that hard ..
2006-07-13 07:44:16 · answer #6 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your definition of love. Is love a feeling to you? If so, you will lose love, and will be disappointed. I believe love starts with physical attraction, but then you need to decide if you will love this person, because love is a commitment- for the rest of your life. You need to decide to love this person because there will be fights/arguments/disagreements and the physical appearacnes that come with age that aren't so nice looking when we get older. Bottom line? LOVE IS A COMMITMENT< NOT A FEELING.
2006-07-13 07:43:32 · answer #7 · answered by Miss America 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is love. it can happen anytime - before or after marriage. It always makes couple happy. You are disappointed because your love is one way and is turned down. If you loose your love after getting it, then it hurts and is converted into grief when the effect is permanent.
2006-07-13 07:44:07 · answer #8 · answered by sanju 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is divine .
god itself created it but we interpret in a wrong way .love before marriage is good but in limits < u become the judge for yourself.
happy or unhappy depends on the way u take it. If lost just forget it.
2006-07-13 07:44:26 · answer #9 · answered by anandK 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends, in my vie what ever GOD will do will always right. Its may be possible that in short while you think that this was done bad by GOD but in long run when u think about the same that in the past that was happen with me then u will feel that this was right.
2006-07-13 08:07:46 · answer #10 · answered by Prashant Pathak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know how to answer this question. But anyway...
Errmm. Love makes people happy. And I mean LOVE. Not INFATUATION. While infatuation makes people feel miserable. Kkays, maybe it's only for me.
2006-07-13 07:47:10 · answer #11 · answered by I don't care anymore. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋