i have been charged with domestic assualt in the state of tn, witch my lawyer got a deversion for me i ended up with 1 year probition here is my question. I was married to a ladie 6 years ago we got divorced and the house was given to me she left got married then came back and we tried again as boyfriend and girlfriend so the deed is in my name, also all the bills are in my name. the judge says i can live there i just dont want to with her there so i asked her to leave she says no what can i do? can i shut off electric gas water can she call the cops and put me back in jail i dont want to be mean just want my house back
2006-07-13 00:32:52 · 8 answers · asked by Rahshawn H 1 in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
This is something that you may have a very serious problem with. But a lawyer is the best way to go. Since the house is yours with everything in your name it sounds like you may need a court order to remove her. As a rule no, BUT since you and her have hooked up as boy/girlfriend the situation just got complicated. GOOD LUCK.
2006-07-13 00:38:35 · answer #1 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answer above hit the nail on the head, you are on probation for one year if you violate that probation in your trouble and all she would have to do is claim you threaten her be by your house and you will be in jail and the charges would increase why take that chance?
Hate to say it but go pay a lawyer to do the whole thing, it will cost some monies but you will be insulated from her if she charges that you tried to threaten her, do not talk with her only threw your lawyer should their be communications
You are on probation hope you understand that you are not free of the legal system in fact your PO officer has a wider range of powers b/c you are on probation then a normal person, just get a lawyer to deal with it
2006-07-13 09:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by goz1111 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BTW moving in with her again was STUPID!!! IF you are charged again your first charge will be changed into a felony. IF you haven't done anything you should LEAVE! Go live with a friend or family member until this is settled. If she gets pissy and files against you - you will PROBABLY go to jail. Just leave and file against her. If the house is in your name she will be forced to leave. But you must leave the house first. Good luck.
2006-07-13 07:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to a landlord/tenant lawyer. If there is no rental agreement or lease, it may be a bit complicated, but essentially you need to evict her. In many states, if you do anything outside the eviction process to get her out, she can sue you, although if she's not paying rent, it will only slow things up.
2006-07-13 07:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by thylawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact your lawyer again....seems you won the house in a divorce settlement..it should only be fair that the ex-wife/new girlfriend move out.
some laws in some states are not equal when it comes to domestic violence, a female abuser seems to have it easy, a male abuser allways has it tuff-do not get me wrong, any abuse from either party is not cool.
but i believe the laws should be re-vamped.
2006-07-13 07:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by gemini~~~marie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to go to court and file an eviction notice. then the police will help you put her out.
2006-07-13 07:39:38 · answer #6 · answered by nana_bad_ass 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your divorced with this lady... then file a restraining order with the local court...
2006-07-13 07:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by nathan.... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not call the cops and explain the situation?
2006-07-13 08:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by leadbelly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋