If your female. How far do you haff to go before it's considered you've had "sex" with another girl?
Random questions I know, but it keeps coming up in conversation with a bunch of mates lol. Just wanted opinions
2006-07-13 00:24:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ah yes, the phallocentric view that if there isn't penetration involved, then it's not "really" sex. I'd say that if you're thinking of as sisterly affection, then hugging or kissing your female friends isn't sex. If you're thinking of it romantically, and there is sexual excitement involved -- or desire to create sexual excitement -- the kissing and hugging your girlfriends IS sex. And if it involves taking off your panties, you know darn well that's sex.
2006-07-13 00:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've had relationships with other women.
Some lesbians don't like penetration it is true but that doen't mean that you can't mke love with them.
And its not just about tongues and fingers you know. Rubbing against each other can be exquisite and is definitely one of the most intimate things you can do together.
I'd say, that for me, there is no 'line' a lot of it is more on feeling. I could bring a women to orgasm with my fingers and yet not feel I'd had sex with her and yet I could rub up against someone fully clothed in a sexual context and definitely feel that we had made love.
Sex between women is as much about what goes on between your ears as between your legs.
2006-07-13 11:17:40 · answer #2 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the female equivalent of intercourse
the word is have not haff
2006-07-13 07:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't actually have sex with a girl, cause when you have sexual intercourse the man has to insert his penis into your Virgina and with girls it would totally be different unless you use a "vibrator", but it would still not be the same.
2006-07-13 07:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say with a man (gay sex) anal.
With a woman its harder because too many variables.
Strap ons count in my opinion, actually anything below the waist in that area in my opinion.
2006-07-13 07:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by becky_ms 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally id say insertion of an object into the partner.......any other than that is not sex but just forplay !
2006-07-13 08:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by emi.cons 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex happens when you are both trying to please each other sexually... ive had sex with both men and women, women tend to be more sensual: kissing and touching etc. Basically, if your not curious keep your panties on and you will be fine
2006-07-13 07:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need to watch before deciding :)
2006-07-13 09:56:59 · answer #8 · answered by engineer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I havnt a clue,good question though!
2006-07-13 07:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by lisalukejodie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Touching each other intimately
2006-07-13 09:33:57 · answer #10 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋