Or should i stay to work this out? I know i cant save it. He says he loves me. But why dont i feel the same? If i stay, it just hurts. each and everytime. tell me, how do i move on?
2006-07-12 23:54:32 · 10 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i'll tell u what!
just take a break a month no more than pfone calls dun meet and if u did dun ever get into bed dinner lunch movie just 1 month and see what happens and make him agree on that!
2006-07-13 00:04:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your solutions are time, time, and more time. But mainly you probably have to cut off contact for awhile. Sounds harsh, yes, but it's the only way to forget about someone and get over it. You already know its a waste of time, its better for both of you if you lay off each other for awhile. You can start talking again and maybe be friends well into the future when you both have found other people or focuses in life.
2006-07-13 07:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by yankeefan36 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read every body's opinion but you know i got a question for you: why did you go out with him it isn't like you woke up one morning and bam there he was and if he loves you do you care about his feeling? it seems to me maybe you wasn't completely honest with him when y'all got together and when he was saying "i love you" you was saying "i love you too" so my point is you have lied to him because if i was him and i said i loved you and you didn't say anything or something lame he or i probably would have left to find someone that loved him or me but hell you ant going to pay my answer any attention you might just want a pity party
2006-07-13 08:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by SLICK77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you do not love him and dont see a future with him, your just gonna have to tell him and move on, If you dont love the man then it shouldnt be difficult to move on. It always helps to have close friends or family around to talk to about things, and you just have to remain positive that you will find someone else. best of luck to you
2006-07-13 06:58:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on like the time moves after giving light through out the day to leave the world dark after light,
Move like the spring leaves the leaf turning golden out of green,
Move like the wind that gushes from the beautiful gardens full of fresh sweet fragrance towards the mountains,
Move like the love of a person who is like some intrested in you but you cant be tied to a place or a person for now,
as you have something else in your mind,
to move on.
You,........
Move ........
on..................................
vikram_sbhatt@yahoo.co.in
2006-07-13 07:06:29 · answer #5 · answered by boom9849 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on by getting some spinal fortitude. It's called a Backbone....
If you're not living in your own residence (apartment, house) you must move out to accomplish the goal of moving on.
If you don't love this person convey it to them and move on.
Once you've done this do not engage this person in conversation, sex, or social circles. Cease communication and MOVE ON.....
2006-07-13 06:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by aunt_beeaa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just takes time. don't look back though because it rarely works out. it is possible to love someone and not be able to work out differences. it's just a matter of one or both of the people deciding that they will no longer compromise.
keep busy, be with friends, find new activities to do.
good luck
2006-07-13 07:01:23 · answer #7 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you do not love him , just pick up your courage and tell him. If you let this relation drags on, it may cause more problems to both you and the guy. You must have positive mindset and be firm when you tell the guy about your decision on this relationship.
2006-07-13 22:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not something to touch and it will start growing in yr heart. you need time .
2006-07-13 06:57:12 · answer #9 · answered by manalonedubai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to God.bcos no one else can help u.trust me i've been there
2006-07-18 05:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋