you see, me and my best friend are the best buddies in the world..it was quite cool knowing youve got someone to depend on..but then things vchange when we got to college..although we got more closer the problem is i cant do anything that he would get jealous..even if i had my classmates with me..i never done anything that would please myslef..he's a bit jealous of everyone who gets close to me..even my lovelife is affected..guys help me out of this...
2006-07-12 23:50:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this has happened to me before. I COULD say, "talk it out", or, "he's not your real friend if he's like that" but advice like that is crap. I understand he's your friend, read:
Make some time just to hang out w/ him. But don't stop hanging out with your other friends. He'll have to accept that he's not your only friend, although he may be your best friend.
As for your lovelife, does the guy have a girlfriend? If not, try and introduce him to some people... but don't push it. Love takes time.
And, for being jealous (i kno this is corny...) compliment him on something that you are absolutely horrible at. Like, you couldn't do to save your life.
Best of luck! Hope your friendship stays strong,
-dancer141*
2006-07-13 00:12:18 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Is he gay? Are you gay? No offense but are either of the two of you?? Jealousy isn't usually a trait of a best friend. Maybe he thinks more of you.
2006-07-13 07:07:34 · answer #2 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably,he might be too possessive abt u.u should really feel happy and proud about it.if it is troubling u so much,have an open discussion with him.Always discussions can give a solution!!!!!
2006-07-13 07:06:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're bestfriend's a male, right?
Men, why is he so possessive of you,,?
he's not gay, is he?
anyways.. maybe he's just jealous and don't welcome the change that you have new companions besides him..
try to talk things out and maybe he'll get a better view on your side...
2006-07-13 07:33:10 · answer #4 · answered by o0caren0o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be hving feelings for u & loves u not only as a best frend but also as a partner
2006-07-13 07:07:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋