how do i learn to love myself?

Answer 1

LOVE AND RESPECT UR SELF FIRST NO MATTER HOW EVER U ARE.AVOID DOING THINGS THAT U DONT LIKE.ACT SMART,THINK U R CUTE,HAVE CONFIDENCE

Answer 2

First of all you must because I said so, and you are a good person whom deserves to be loved, and needs love, and if you cannot love yourself, then how can you ever expect others to love you.

Secondly stop setting such large goals for yourself that are to difficult to achieve, that only leads to you telling yourself you are a looser. you must set small goals, and pat yourself on the back when you accomplish them.

Don't always look to others for recognition, other people are often two rapped up in themselves to ever notice, therefor you must empower yourself telling yourself you are doing a good job.

Thirdly go to the nearest mirror and look into the reflection and have a talk with yourself, and tell yourself that you love you, even if you don't feel like you believe it at first, you must do it often.
say self I love you, you are good enough, you are strong enough, you can do anything which you wish to do, and you will do it one little step at a time.

Never ever make excuses if you mess up, as the only person who won't mess up is the person whom won't try.

Therefor when ever you make a mistake take pride in it and use it as a learning experience, as now you know one way not to do it, and know that you put forth the effort even though you did not succeed, and give yourself the credit for the effort any way.

Life is much better when you love yourself, and other people will love to be around you also, as you will shine.

Answer 3

Be a little self-righteous. stop comparing yourself to other people. Dont think too much cuz it tends to make you aware that you have lots of shortcomings, or that you are having a pathetic life. Everybody has shortcomings and is having the same kind of life. Its just a half-full-half-empty glass perspective. Dont be so morally restrictive that you are denying yourself of some pleasures. Be a little selfish but not too much. You cant make others happy if you are not happy yourself.

Answer 4

Accept yourself, flaws and all. What isnt there to love!!! There are reasons why you feel like this. Deal with those first, avoiding them only pushes them out of sight..... for now. Believe me they will come up again and again. Go to counselling or talk to someone. Your low self esteem is like a weight that once you confront it will get lighter and lighter as you get stronger. Believe in yourself for the wonderful, unique, one in a billion that you are. You deserve to look after you, be good to yourself. Good luck x

Answer 5

You can learn to love yourself by
1) knowing the God that created you and how much you mean to Him.
2) Do something to make someone else happy especially the less privileged.

Answer 6

Focus on all your good points and forget about the bad. Right a list of all the things you think are good about yourself and read it every day. Or just realise that you're good and anyone who doesn't think so can p*ss off.

Answer 7

Try to do things u loved seeing other do n then u will love urself for having done what u loved.

Answer 8

Same way you love someone else, with patience, acceptance, understanding, and yes, like the other girl said sometimes a dildo.

Answer 9

look in the mirror and start pointing out stuff u like and don't like then ask urself what u can do to make those things better.....be confident in what u have and u'll see the change

Answer 10

Write down some good things about yourself...or thing tht you are good at.

You can ask your friends to help you with it...ask them wht they like best about you...

If you know how good you are...it's so easy to love yourself!