Do you really know when you've found the One you are going to marry? How many of you knew it and were right..? I have that same feeling about someone...
2006-07-12 22:30:25 · 21 answers · asked by msachtungbaby 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes you feel it in your heart...and right down to your toes...
2006-07-12 22:33:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I knew. Well my heart knew, my logic centers fought with my heart for a very short while but it was a loosing battle. I always knew in my heart.
Love is more than just a feeling though, as another person said it's also a committment which means that it is also in part a decision, a choice you make.
2006-07-13 12:23:08 · answer #2 · answered by Saphira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I've been married. I lost my heart to a man who was an idiot. Now I live with a man who I hope to grow old with but I don't know. People change, things change.
There is no 'the one' IMO. There are lots of people out there who could make you happy at a certain stage in your life. You have to be prepared to allow your partner to grow and change, you have to be prepared for your growth and change. It doesn't all just fall in your lap because you love each other. Your have to invest in a relationship and hope that you are rewarded with something wonderful that you can both share.
2006-07-13 10:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by Leapling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew it the minute we met, i was with someone else at the time and i couldn't stop thinking about him! We got together when my other relationship ended 3 weeks later(nothing dodgy, it was amicable!) and within 3 months we were living together, we are now happily married and i truly believe he is my soul mate. Trust your instincts, I i am very very happy for you not many people find that special person. We are very lucky xx
2006-07-13 05:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. I knew I was going to marry my boyfriend the moment I met him and he was dating my friend at the time!
We both split up from our partners at the time, at the same time! And started dating three months later - been together ever since (20 months this month :)
2006-07-13 07:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not just about LOVE. Its also involves COMMITMENT. Nobody could tell whether dat person s d ryt 1 until they become 1 by marriage. Of course, love is there but remember 2 ask for divine guidance 2 make ur relationship more stronger.
2006-07-13 05:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by jennycute 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you will know, you will ahve the following signs.
1.be happy.
2. love to spend time with the person.
3 spend quality time with the person very often.
4. have butterflys when you see him.
5. feel like taling with him.
6. feel comfortable around him.
7. ahve 100% trust in him.
8. feel like you have alot in common.
they are just some, hope this helps.
2006-07-13 05:45:13 · answer #7 · answered by jame_football 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I thought i`d found the 1 and the asshole walked out and left me and our 3 year old son 2 weeks ago but thats just my bitterness and anger talking!I do hope you have found the 1 and wish you luck,xx
2006-07-13 20:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by onlyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel ive found the one. most people try put it down and tell you you have alot to learn but i dont really listen. ive been out with people before but this is totally different. id die for this person. its like you have this connection that you dont want to end. i spend everyday with my boyfriend and it never gets boring. he makes me smile constantly and ive never been more relaxed. i can talk to him about anything! the only thing is things can stop you from marrying the one, maybe outside influences or distance.
2006-07-13 07:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by zoe_fairy_on_acid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont just fall in love with the one.... You KNOW the one. Cant be described, just felt. You might not even like them!!!! But you love them and things that they do that would drive a nun to murder, you forgive cos that is the way it is. I found the one and didnt know cos i kept looking around for another better 'one'.... only to discover that i could not conceive a longterm plan without my bf. nearly lost it all! dear dear, what fools us humans are. Trust your gut instinct.
2006-07-13 07:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by madgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew right off. It was definitely a destiny. For him too. I know people though who take time to warm up to someone but we just knew.
2006-07-13 05:34:01 · answer #11 · answered by felisuncia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋