I had many boyfriends before but when my bestfriend came which is the same sex as I am, I have been completely head over heels with her b't she doesn't know it. I do not know the answer because even though I have a boyfriend now, i am not as inlove with him as my bestfriend. and I always put my bestfriend in my priority list. please help me... what should I do?
2006-07-12 21:12:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I would guess bi, but only you can label youself. IF so does the label matter?
2006-07-12 21:15:43 · answer #1 · answered by keep_up_w_this 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i'm a lesbian and that i favor different lesbian women, i have dated 2 bisexual women in my complete years of being out of the closet. My first lady friend became bisexual and interior 2 months or so she left me for some guy. My old flame became bi-curious when I met her now she's a lesbian. i have continually informed myself i will by no potential fairly date yet another bisexual woman yet can no longer help who I fall for therefore, yet I do have a decision
2016-11-06 07:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by tito 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you know the answer to your own question! You sound young, and your "crush" on your gf could be a passing phase. You don't say you are attracted to any other girls, and you do have a bf now. Maybe you are mistaking admiration for your friend for love? If you have sexual fantasies about your gf, you are probably bi. If you just feel love or admiration for her, you are probably not. We can love our gfs without being bi.
2006-07-12 21:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by 420Linda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you aren't in love with your b/f break it off. Stop wasting his time and living a lie. Then give yourself some time. Meet some new people. Check out a gay center and talk to some of the people. You need some time to get to know you. The young people in this country jump into relationships like they were new shoes. Spend some time with yourself. Check out your heart. See where it takes you. (I didn't know I was a lesbian until 27 and already married. oops.)
2006-07-12 21:38:07 · answer #4 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what you describe, bi, but don't rush to label yourself. Think of yourself as "in love with this girl" for now, and leave it at that. I hope she feels the same way about you!
2006-07-12 21:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by GreenEyedLilo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you more attracted to? Women Or men? I f it is 50/50 than your Bi
2006-07-13 05:31:18 · answer #6 · answered by hottness 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that u r probably bi, cuz u have a boyfriend and u r inlove with ur friend. goodluck on finding out ; )
2006-07-14 07:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Melissa♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi
2006-07-12 21:36:18 · answer #8 · answered by cloud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bi
2006-07-12 21:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋