how to change a straight men to gay?

Question

my friend is keep on askin 'bout this. please hlp me, i realy have no idea how to answer....

Answer 1

There is no more a way to change straight men to gay than there is to change gay men to straight. Only bisexuals get choices.

Some straight men will have sex with a gay man if they are horny -- but that does NOT make them gay, anymore than hiding in the closet and having sex with women makes someone straight. It is what you want, not what you do, either through convenience or self-hatred that determines what you are, and eventually, the natural you will come out.

I remember a boy many years ago, who loved us very much, having a reverse coming out. He sat on the bed in our guest room, crying. I asked what was wrong. He looked up and said "Oh Reyn, I think I'm straight." I was quick to reassure him, but it was a year before he felt good about it. He loved us and we were always there -- which his parents werent, plus he had a gay uncle who he loved very much. He wanted to be queer like we all were -- but he had no choice. No one does. (he was 13 when he did that).

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Answer 2

You can't change a straight man to gay, he's too old. If you had gotten to him when he was a youngster, you could. A lot of gays turned out that way by having been molested as children.

The biggest factor, tho', is them growing up without a dad figure present (or if he was present, he was a perfectionist and too demanding, and the son could never win his approval).

Btw, no one is born gay, it's chosen behavior, and generally one turns out choosing it because they were raised with no close relationship with a father. Even in the latest "research" headline that tries to push that nonsensical view, if you read it closely, there is STILL no proof anywhere that anyone is born gay.

Answer 3

Taken from another Answer and 'edited' with full artistic license. All absurdity remains intact:

You can't change a Gay man into a straight man. He's too old.
If you had gotten to him when he was a youngster, you could.

It's an unfortunate an well document fact that straights turned out that way by having been molested as children. 'Tis twue, 'tis twue!

The biggest factor, however, is them growing up without a strong parental figure present (or if he or she were present, he or she was a perfectionist and much too demanding, and the son could never win his or her approval).

BTW, no one is born straight! IT IS CHOSEN BEHAVIOR, and generally one turns out choosing it because they were raised with no close relationship with a mother. Biblical evidence supports this, as well as a few old Freudian theories.

Even in the latest "research" headlines that tries to push that nonsensical view, if you read it closely, there is STILL no proof anywhere that anyone is born straight.

[Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to go puke]

Best Wishes!

Answer 4

All attempts to change gay men to straight, by religious indoctrination, social oppression, electric shock treatment (used to happen in the 1950s) or plain threat of violence, have ended in unhappiness or worse for the individuals involved.

Trying it the other way round is just as likely to be a disaster.

If your friend is a guy in love with a straight man, I'm sorry for him but I think you should advise him to cut his losses and fix on someone more likely to respond to him. We mustn't try to violate someone else's personality to make them fit into an agenda of our own.

Answer 5

You are going to need:

1. One large 6inch or larger red patent leather high heel shoe.
2. Super glue
3. A cheap wig (any colour will do)
4. A garden shovel
5. One Cher Cd
6. A Mary Kate and Ashley Film (Any Title)
7. Vodka(grey goose preferred)
8. fairydust(if fairydust is un-obtainable get coke from drag queen in the ladies restroom at your local gay bar)

Mix all ingredients in a large stockpot, except for fairy dust and Cher CD, boil for 20 minutes, Line martini glass with fairydust, chill mixture in freezer for one hour, serve chilled in fairydust lined martini glass to straight man to be turned. While he is drinking, play the Cher Cd on full volume. He should be gay in about one hour.

Answer 6

I think your friend is a gay or else, why is he so interested to change a straight to gay, he might be fallen for someone who is a straight. DO NOT CHANGE A STRAIGHT MEN TO GAY. Morally not right.Psychologyical unbalanced. Rather help to change a gay to straight and lead a normal family life.

Answer 7

I do not think you can turn a straight man gay. If a person is gay, then they are born that way, and the same goes for being straight. Neither can be switched, lest they pretend to be something they're not.

Answer 8

If he was born straight, you won't change him. You might convince him to try gay sex, but he'll be a straight man accepting a blow job, he won't be gay.

Gay people engage in gay sex by choice. They are attracted primarily to other men, sexually and emotionally/romantically. It is an inherint quality which cannot be changed. The same is true of straight men.

Answer 9

Cant do it... don't even try.

Wayne: So let me get this "straight"

homosexuality is caused by either a parent not being present, or being present but being overbearing, or not strong enough...

well, that just about describes ANYBODY and any possibility. Are you really retarded enough to believe this crap? Or is that just the nonsense you say to back your belief that people CHOOSE to be gay?

Answer 10

Yeah, it ain't gonna happen. I've been with a few guys who considers themselves straight. In the end they always went back to a female. Its stressful trying to keep them in your life so the best answer is don't go there.