i told mii b/f who ive been going out for for bout year now and it was good at first no fights but now all we ever do is fight and it tears me apart cuz we were never like dis b4. i know he cares 4 me , i mean we luv eachother very much, but im strting to lose that now cuz hes always asking me where r u going or wat r u going to where? and if i wear a skirt w/o him there he'll get pisssed there's more to it but imma try to keep it short. mucho amor y respecto, Bianca De La Torre*
2006-07-12 20:39:24 · 6 answers · asked by {{;*$! BIANCA_A.K.A_CARNE !$*;}} 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He does this because he overcares for you and doesnt want to lose you.. You really need to talk to him about this and assure him that the way you dress and all is just the way you are.. If he loves you he should know that you would never cheat on him make sure he knows that and build his confidence.. He does all that because he feels insecure.. tell him that you love him really much but this isnt workking out if he continues like that..dont be against him just try to help him..he needs you to make him secure.. tell him he fell in love with you the way you are and why would he want to change you now? tell him you respect him and everything he does and that you expect from him to do the same.. sing to him the britney's song lol " you should take me as i am.. cause i can promise you ..baby what you see is what you get!"
good luck girl =P be patient if u love your guy.. it takes time
2006-07-12 21:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
bottom line: He is cheating on you.....
Think about it.....all of a sudden you two are constantly fighting, he is suddenly asking you where you are going, and what your wearing when you go out. He gets pissed when you wear a short skirt when you go out without him. He is trying to find reasons to be mad at you so that it takes the focus off his cheating.......Baby girl, I know you have been with this guy for a year, but it seems like he has gotten too comfortable in the relationship and I am sorry to say that it may be time for you to move on.
2006-07-13 06:23:30 · answer #2 · answered by jes81_99 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are on your way of being a victom. Eventually you will feel like you deserve to be mistreated. You might love him and he you, but a distructive relationship isn't the kind of love you want to hang around for.
2006-07-13 03:45:38 · answer #3 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to give the relationship some space. he's to contolling. that tends to lead to verbal abuse and then physical abuse. any man that has issues because you wear a skirt when he's not around had self-esteem issues. seriously talk to your mom about it. they do have good advice every now and then
2006-07-13 03:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by meek 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you must RESPECT him and he must respect you. I think you should try and do something off the wall shake things up a bit. He might be cheating or he loves you a lot.
2006-07-13 03:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by MR ITALIAN 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
change what?
2006-07-13 03:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by dirtdevil215 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋