I know im gay for a fact but lately i havent seen any guy i was attracted to, also i was i looked a porn site, and i felt nothing. Mabye the fact that i dont have a boyfriend dosnet motivate me?
im 18 so im hoping its not erectile dysfunction is it? ( no im not attracted to females wither ewww lol)
i would prefer if gay people only answered, mabye some females if they are openminded
ok thanks
2006-07-12 20:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by Darryl M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You might want to see a doctor to see if there might be something wrong that is affecting your libido.
2006-07-12 20:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by davi h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your setting your standards way to high? I know that sounds crazy but it might be true. You know as a person what attracts you to a person. Put those thoughts on paper and see what your end result would be in a person that your totally attracted to. You'll know if your standards are way to high or it might just help you find someone tomorrow. I do not believe it's an erectile disfunction, unless your taking anti-depressants or some other possible drug that would cause disfunction in your body.
2006-07-13 03:26:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are young, and still figuring out just who you are. Most 18 year olds really think THEY KNOW, but the truth is (and you'll find this out as you get older), they DON'T. You are still in the process of it all. Don't label yourself one way or the other just yet. Feel free to explore whatever calls to you. Don't follow the crowd, be true to yourself, and don't limit yourself. You have your whole life ahead of you! It just may be that in trying so hard to "define" your sexuality, you've put confinements on yourself too soon (you really shouldn't do that at all, no matter how old you are)- and this might make you somewhat depressed and not quite at peace with what you've "defined" or "labelled" yourself to be. That might cause you to lose your sexual "urges" all together, at least it's a distinct possibility. Allow yourself to have as much freedom to explore all the alternatives, AND to "change your mind" as readily as you made your mind up... there's no right or wrong in learning about yourself, as long as you are as kind toward yourself as you are toward others. Good luck.
2006-07-13 03:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by It's Ms. Fusion if you're Nasty! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In all seriousness, I would repeat what some earlier posters said. There can be medical things that effect sex drive / libido. Could be the beginnings of a bigger problem, or it could be related to medication for another problem, or could be neither. I would definitely ask a doc.
OR
Could be natural fluxuations of your sex drive too. How long's it been going on? More than like a month of nothing and I'd say it's more serious.
What it comes down to is: if it worries you, ask.
2006-07-15 11:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's tough to say for sure. Decreased libido is a side effect with some medication. Could also be from depression. I'd bet against erectile disfunction. That'll interfere with the process of geting hard, but not one's sex drive. (a particularly mean irony.)
2006-07-17 22:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by Dell W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY DON'T YOU SPEND SOME TIME INVOLVED IN ACTIVITIES NOT ASSOCIATED WITH SEX? SPORTS OR SOMETHING. TAKE YOUR MIND OFF IT FOR A LITTLE WHILE. STOP WORRYING ABOUT HAVING A B/F. GO GET INVOLVED IN A GAY SOCIAL EVENT, CHARITY THING, ETC. IT WILL MAKE YOU FEEL GOOD ABOUT YOURSELF AND MAYBE THAT'S JUST WHAT YOU NEED RIGHT NOW. BE GOOD TO YOURSELF. DON'T WORRY ALL OF SUDDEN THAT SOMETHING IS WRONG. I THINK IT'S SO COOL NOW THAT GLBT YOUTH CAN COME OUT SO YOUNG. I WAS 26,27 AND MARRIED BEFORE I GOT MY HEAD OUT OF MY TUSH. GO HAVE SOME FUN AND DO SOME DIFFERENT STUFF FOR A WHILE..ALL OF A SUDDEN MR RIGHT WILL SHOW UP.
2006-07-13 05:32:04 · answer #6 · answered by reme_1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...one night
there's a heartbeat at the door.
Outside, a person in the fog,
with hair of twigs and a dress of weed,
dripping green lake water.
Says "I am you,
and I have traveled a long distance.
Come with me, there is something I must show you..."
Turning to go, their cloack falls open,
Suddenly, golden light....everywhere, golden light...
people are boring that is why, they believe all their materials and face will keep them occupied and happy but truely..porn is unnatural and love can only truely grow when two people are alone in the wild.
2006-07-13 03:29:02 · answer #7 · answered by cagednymph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being gay myself u could at your age have an erection problem but i doubt it if u think thats the case see your dr. and just because you havent seen anyone your atrracted to doesnt mean u wont u just havent met the right guy your young give your self time stop looking at the dumb porn sites go out have fun go swimming just go out meet people
2006-07-13 03:27:06 · answer #8 · answered by sissy j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you asound like you're just getting picky about what kind of guy you like, which also means only that type may turn you on. Don't worry, you'll get it all back
2006-07-13 10:46:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you recently started taking any kind of medication?
2006-07-13 03:22:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋