Sawing lumber?
2006-07-12
19:31:35
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8 answers
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barbaradjt
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Not board, but bored...sorry...tired but can't sleep...grrrrrrr..really I can spell.
2006-07-12
19:36:19 ·
update #1
Hi Becca, First, you have to decide WHY is it that you love this guy? Does he feed your needs emotionally? I can't tell, but it does not sound like it. Secondly, are you willing to compromise your needs for only half of a relationship? Seems like he is unemotionally available. He sounds like he is being straight up with you, and tells you that you just simply turn him on. If he were serious, he would have committed to you emotionally. i foresee this relationship will be nothing more than a sexual one. If you can live with that then go for it. I don't want to see you sell yourself short, maybe you should look for a relationship that contains the whole package, not just the sex. If it were me... This is just me talking... I would stop going there, and make myself unavoidable for a while. If he really LOVES you, then he will change. If he doesn't, I am sure in your heart, you probably already knew he wasn't serious. Would be nice to see that your most important needs be....
2006-07-13
13:05:05 ·
update #2
met before getting into the sexual. It sounds like you deserve more than what he can give you.
2006-07-13
13:06:03 ·
update #3
It sounds like you do what one of my friends did. She always goes for guys emotionally unavailable, so that she knows what she is getting into, and does not get hurt as bad..(so she thinks). She is afraid she will meet someone half way decent, and then he will BREAK her heart terribley. She was always up for the CHALLENGE and loved to take the guy and try to CHANGE him... What is it that you really love about this guy? Is it the challenge? This was about give or take 15 years ago since we lived in the same state. Now, she has been divorced three times and on her fourth marriage.... I don't wanna see this happen to you. ....As sweet and good as they are.. if they don't want to committ, they won't.. YOu can't change them.
2006-07-13
13:12:16 ·
update #4
Best of Luck, I know my advice doesn't seem promising, but I want to tell you how I really feel straight from the heart..
-barbara
2006-07-13
13:18:02 ·
update #5