I have an online friend of 9 yrs or so. We were in HS when we met, and we both kinda wanted to get together but we lived across the country. Then we grew older, I got married, he got mad and got married because I was, then got divorced, now we're friends again, then he really started going back to the past saying I'm the only girl he ever loved, and he wishes we get a chance to be together, I told him that I do love him, but I"m in love with my husband, then he all the sudden got engaged to this girl again, and no he says he can't talk to me. One week we're best friends and now were not. He left me a lame myspace message about how we can't talk and to not even reply to the message. We have always been honest with eachother, so Would you leave it alone, or would you email them??
2006-07-12 19:29:48 · 12 answers · asked by lynda_Luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
its hard to walk away, we've been best friends for almost 9 years, no easy to walk away, I've known him since I was 15 at least, and I'm 24 now, I don't want to be with him, I just miss him as a friend.
2006-07-12 19:37:15 · update #1
I know most of you say let him be, but he has been the only constant in my life since then. I've moved at least 4 times. He's been with me through it all, and I have been there for him. We have given so much to eachother, I can't imagine my life with out him as my friend. Our friendship isn't effecting my marriage at all so don't worry about that. I just don't know that I can move on, without him in my life.
2006-07-13 03:08:57 · update #2
If you do email him, tell him that he needs some help. Then I wouldn't email him again. He may be a good friend but he is always going to be this way unless something else happens. You don't have to be mean to him, just quit talking to him. He will probably eventually find another person to obsess over.
2006-07-12 19:35:07 · answer #1 · answered by dwmajick2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave it alone. this is a weird relationship and should not go further than is necessary. both of u have grown up and live separates lives. u r being true and living life as a healthy adult. dont get tangle up in unnecessary mess. ur husband wont like it too. just let it go.
2006-07-12 19:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by aishah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would email him and tell him if he can't understand that you love your husband that he is not a very good friend and that all you are looking for is his friendship i have been there so i know it will be hard for you because you care for him as a friend but you should let him go
2006-07-12 20:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by tabbie_18_2002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone. Just be with your husband and be happy that you have him. Some things are better left alone and this guy is definately one of them.
2006-07-12 19:34:04 · answer #4 · answered by mlove1307 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let it be. You are married. Hopefully your husband is great, you say you love him. And this other guy is getting married. Let him be miserable and you be happy.
2006-07-12 19:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's a boy not a man my goodness sake. Forget about him. behaving like a 13 yr old
2006-07-12 19:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by elmo_gerl45 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would just leave it alone. Because he seems too emotionally disturbed, where you are concerned. Does he know where you and your family live? I hope not!
2006-07-12 19:42:30 · answer #7 · answered by petersgurl1995 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
email them to say why aren't we talking just because u got engaged
2006-07-12 19:34:39 · answer #8 · answered by [sabrina] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes not the type of friend you should have he just wanted you for something else he couldnt get it so hes mad and retaliated
2006-07-12 19:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd wait about a month or two, then message him again.
2006-07-12 19:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by BeckiiShizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋