I have been with him for a year and a half. i have been pregnant by him twice but had miscarriages. we were inseperable, always together EVERYDAY all day. i eventually stopped talking to most of my friends because i was too wrapped up into him. i did anything he ever asked me to even if he thought it was impossible. he was my whole life. i loved him very much and i still love him even more now that we arent together.
i know that people would say to get up and start talking to other people or find an activity or something to occupy my time but EVERYTHING i do reminds me of him and it doesnt work for me.
if i try talking to another guy i compare him to my ex and then i end up not wanting to talk to the guy anymore
WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO??
please help!!!!
2006-07-12 18:59:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
what you going through right now is completely normal after a serious relationship. you probably feels really lonely inside and everything seems like there is no point. but if its the end of you guys, you have to at least try to not think about him all the time. everything happens for a reason, he aboslutely isnt the right one. you still have to be strong and stand up to find your true match.it is soo hard because everythign is different now but after a while your broken heart should slowly starting to heel. i hope you feel betterr.
2006-07-12 19:10:57 · answer #1 · answered by lilbabigurlb123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the same boat with you. I also compared my other bfrends to him. It didn't work though cuz you are dating your new bfrend and you xpect him to be like you r previous bfrend. He is a totally difrent person if you havent noticed or known.So i think you should move on.Well i didnt quite do that. I just fell inlove with another guy and he is much better than the one that i thought was my soul mate.I am deeply inlove with him.I still phone my xbfrendbut there is nothing between us anymore. Deep down i still feel something for him but not the feeling that was there when i first met him.I hope my answer helps. Please stay in contact and tell me how it went.Good luck.
2006-07-13 02:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by flipper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting over is diffiucult You just got to learn to accept and move on with your life. Maybe somehing better will come your way. Look at the bright side.. there is a reason for everything.
2006-07-13 02:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sheila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I'm very sorry you're going through this. Your heart will mend with time. Take long, hot baths to help relax your muscles. It'll be okay.
2006-07-13 02:07:27 · answer #4 · answered by LOVE2LD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋