I have experienced many a time when my gfriends tell me that they are not interested in sex but I am sure that we share the same needs both man and woman and our needs are the same. So why all the hiding our feelings. Why can't we be honest for a change?
2006-07-12 18:47:28 · 12 answers · asked by Imagine 1952 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Neither, you just dont understand women...
Well, to tell ya a little secret if you turn a woman off emotionally she isnt going to be in the mood. If you disrespect her or hurt her feelings she is not going to like you, and that is going to come out in the form of you aint gettin any.
Women are emotional creatures whereby men are more detached and mental. It drives us both crazy about each other, you dont need to be emotional you just need to respect our feelings and know that we are.
Women also have cycles where they are more playful (cattime) and then the tide goes out and then it comes back and she'll let you know.
Or you could take her out treat her like a lady that you love and like, get her some flowers tell her she's special and you'd be surprised...
A woman in love does not to just want to have sex
They want to make mad passionate mind blowing love...
2006-07-12 19:04:14 · answer #1 · answered by PeaceTree 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Women don't always enjoy sex in a relationship. Sometimes they are not in the mood and when women are not in the mood they can still physically have sex but it won't feel good. Imagine *somehow* having sex without an erection. It would feel annoying at best. Actually, sex can hurt if a woman is not 'ready.' Some women are not 'interested' in sex not because they don't like sex in general but they might have different reasons. Women 'need' sex too but sometimes they want it to be more than just sex.
2006-07-12 18:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by xena790 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(I have experienced many a time when my gfriends) mmmmm i would be wondering if it wasn't you they were talking about ,considering your first line ( MY GIRLFRIENDS) more than than 1 has said this to you , i think you need to stand back and look in the mirror the problem i say is in front of you , ask your girlfriend , am i a crap root ? if she interested in you she'll be honest and tell you , if you are it's not the end of the world get some books read ask her how to please her better make her feel good before getting off your self ( remember the song try a little tenderness) well holly **** it works ,rob
2006-07-12 18:57:50 · answer #3 · answered by diablo0470 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, because the Bible has in ordinary words SIX warnings antagonistic to gay sex and 166 warnings antagonistic to hetero sex i ought to say that you've chanced on considered one of God's prevailing arguments. i imagine they're only speaking about placing issues from one individual to a unique and by no potential being fairly certain. be conscious the area the position King David talks about his love for Jonathan the position he says "I easily have by no potential had more suitable love for a lady than I easily have had for Jonathan" in connection with their little trists contained in the south tower. there became also the Lesbian liason between Ruth and Naomi contained in the Bible. If gayness became soooooo poor then why does the Bible tutor the affairs of King David & Jonathan alongside with Ruth and Naomi. besides there have been gay human beings decrease back then and the townfolk did not look to have a topic with it. And Soddom and Gomorrah (sic?) did no longer have something to do with gay human beings .... it dealt with the most important sin of the time ... inhospitality to travelers ... which became the sin of S&G, no longer homosexuality. yet then too ... if God became keeping now to not lie with a guy as with a lady does that propose that oral sex is high quality? And making out and hugging and kissing? purely anal sex is a no-no? it ought to reduce decrease back on AIDS a lot if human beings ought to bypass up anal sex yet then it would not be as a lot relaxing .... i'm informed. i have were given this large four hundred web page e book that shows how the Bible is pleased with homosexuality. It became printed by employing the UCC ... commonly used Christian Church. :-) Peace ... Sodomites
2016-11-06 07:27:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but maybe they are being honest... every human is made differently... some peoples hormones or desires are stronger than others,... or it could be that they have had an extremely bad experience and just dont wanta go there again.... and then again maybe you are doing something to turn them off.. maybe they see you as a person who only cares about sex and are waiting for you to show signs of other intelligence before they give it up.
2006-07-12 18:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by monie99701 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women just do not have the sex drive that men have. Sometimes it is from negative past experiences, other times it is from physical reasons, and sometimes it is from having a partner who hasn't taken the time to understand what makes them comfortable.
2006-07-12 18:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think when a woman says she doesn't like sex, she's speaking the truth. It's not that she's inexperienced, it's just that she has probably had her fill of selfish lovers. By selfish, I mean her partners may not have given her needs proper consideration.
2006-07-12 18:55:42 · answer #7 · answered by Call Me Babs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mm, we dont want exactly the same thing, maybe blaming ur girlfriend isnt the right way to go, maybe u should learn some new was to please her then she might be more interested!
And it is a fallacy some women just dont like sex, it has nothing to do with lying or inexperience!
2006-07-12 18:53:30 · answer #8 · answered by bobatemydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just a way of saying no and avoiding the subject. needs to be with the right person and right time even to discuss such?
not wanting to give you the wrong hint too? no offense taken. . .
2006-07-13 18:55:23 · answer #9 · answered by superyoyogirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is more likely that those ladies actually aren't interested in sex at that time or with you
perhaps you are expecting sex without concerning yourself about the lady - eg little or no foreplay, little or no romance
2006-07-12 18:53:01 · answer #10 · answered by Ivanhoe Fats 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋