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2006-07-12 18:19:51 · 7 answers · asked by yummy _me 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I did it, everyone(almost everyone) does.
I do not see a problem unless you look at it from the point of view of religion and that is when you start having problems.
Just make sure it is protected and that you do not get pregnant
2006-07-12 18:25:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mohammed R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to look at it religiously, then it is not ok. If you are going to look at it from a human's point of view, someone that is old enough and can mentally/emotionally handle it (between adults over 18), then it's fine.
I think of it this way: By having premarital sex, I find out if I am sexually compatible with my partner. I also live with the partner for quite awhile before marriage to see if we can handle living together, if we are compatible to live together. If I didn't live with the person or have sex with them before marriage, we wouldn't know if we were compatible. Once we were married and we found out we weren't compatible, then what. We would end up divorced. I didn't live with my ex husband before marrying him or else I would have known that we wwere NOT compatible to be living together, and that he was abusive, a liar and cheater, and a drug user. We did have sex before marriage, but it was only ok. I am now living with my fiance and we do have sex and are totally compatible in every way.
2006-07-13 01:30:51 · answer #2 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think it's wrong unless you truly know that you're going to spend the rest of your life with that person and you really love them and they love you. And you have to make sure that both of you have been tested for all those nasty STD's and that you use protection. No matter what: respect and communication have to come into the picture.
One night stands? Don't believe in them - I have never done that and never will. Sex is something sacred - not to be thrown around for selfish and personal pleasure. For that you have masturbation.
2006-07-13 01:27:35 · answer #3 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I find a lot of problems with the institiution of marriage in general so i totally think its okay. I do not, however, think having sex when you are too young or not ready is okay though
2006-07-13 01:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is NOT RIGHT .. once you start you can't stop.. So it is best to do it with the person you are in love and know that will be together for ever..
2006-07-13 01:46:59 · answer #5 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That it's wrong, unless you do it with the person you truly, are going to marry.
2006-07-13 01:23:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep you legs closed. if he really cares about you he wouldn't pressure you to have sex before you're ready and married.
2006-07-13 01:24:57 · answer #7 · answered by blkrose65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋