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me and my bf have been going out for a long time and he says he likes me so much but wegot on this conversation about how he cares about nothing so i said if i did stuff with another guy would you care and he said it wouldn't bother him but he wouldn't like me so i told himthats just because he doesn't like me enough yet but he said that not it he just doesn't care i really don't uderstand??????? HELP

2006-07-12 18:18:59 · 32 answers · asked by mudslinger 1 in Family & Relationships Friends

32 answers

You can't make someone like you, and love you. if you are not comfortable with him now....take some bold decision...but dont do any thing so fast without thinking for which u have to repent in future...give him enough time to understand you... you too try to understand him more calmly... dont think that he will become like you... but for a perfect life partner both partner should have same thinking.... so in my advise u should apart from him.

2006-07-12 18:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by hanish garg 1 · 1 0

Hi dear,wat a coincidence! i was also in the same track some time ago.now that i understood how selfish guys are,here i'm 2 help u out.Look dear,i know how it feels to be ignored by someone u love the most.but the fact is;where there is no possessiveness,there is no true love! Yap.i'm not trying to separate u both but this is the first sign of hatred and negligence.u must have heard the proverb 'Prevention is better than cure'.but u know wat? there'll be no cure for this rejection.So,GO GIRL!for someone who's really mad in love with u and not some "easy go,easy come" parties ok?have a great time!

2006-07-12 18:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by asin 1 · 0 0

Well its sounds to me like you've got a pretty insensitive apathetic bf...not neccesarily good. If he likes you as much as he says he does then it would definetely bother him if you were messing around with another guy. You care about him so you would be angry if you found out he was messing around with another girl right? My advice would be to sit down with him and have a serious talk about his feelings for you. If he says that he likes you but dosen't care about you and tells you to feel free to mess with other guys then he probably dosen't have much respect for you and his values for himself personally lie on the same grounds in other words he probably would not have a problem cheating on you. So just ask yourself if you want to spend your time with someone like that. In all honesty it sounds like you and him have very different values and ideas of respect when it comes to relationships so once again it would be best to talk it out. If you can meet him halfway then great...if he still claims to not care what you do or about you personally then it might be time to find a new bf...Good luck!

2006-07-12 18:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0 0

It is vitually impossible to make someone care for you. They have to do it from the bottom of their hearts. You and your boyfriend just need to sit down and think if this relationship is worthy your time. Kindly stop threatening to hurt him coz it will not do any good. You need a one to one talk particularly with a counselor to get at the bottom of the problem. Remember men normally have a hard time expressing their feelings.

2006-07-12 18:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by ngina 5 · 0 0

He is a guy. A young guy. He makes points to sound cool, aloof, and intelligent and probably doesn't mean them one bit.

As for you, you need to stop being so insecure within the relationship. If he had no interest in you, he would leave, so relax and enjoy eachother's company and don't make a federal case out of one conversation.

Best of luck to you both!

2006-07-12 18:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_leaf 7 · 0 0

You sound really young. Don't worry about serious relationships right now. Go have fun in the world. Love can just complicate things. Wait until you are older to find love.

2006-07-12 18:22:23 · answer #6 · answered by laura_bush_is_fetching 2 · 0 0

Yeah right, of course he cares! He's just so full of social stigmatism he thinks if he cares about anyone or shows any emotion he'll be "gay" or a "pussy." Deep down in side he does care. Confront him with this, and see what he says. Maybe you really don't want to be with this person.

2006-07-12 18:22:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Yeah...your bf sounds like what we holding a psych degree call an "emotional cripple". Run, don't walk to the nearest exit...these people are incapable of human emotion or empathy and must be avoided at all cost...

2006-07-12 18:21:59 · answer #8 · answered by mytreacheryiseternal 4 · 0 0

Honey, You cant MAKE no one care about you. Real love or if someone cares about someone else they wont let that stuff stand in the way but it was crappy to ask him that question and if you really care about him you wouldnt go mess wit someone else

2006-07-12 18:21:39 · answer #9 · answered by britbrat 1 · 0 0

Dump this puke....he obviously has a terrible attitude problem or he doesn's have the balls to break up with you so he is saying stupid crap to try and get you to end it. If he loved you he would care.

2006-07-12 18:22:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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