i had lots of bf before,but i'm still feel empty in my heart.sometimes i think they weren't the one who fits me.but how to find my true love??it's hard i know and give ur suggestions?
2006-07-12 18:13:37 · 16 answers · asked by Chaotic~Fiona 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Give it time. My story:
She bought us tickets to the Carlos Mencia Show for my Valentine's Day present. We had Dinner Reservations at the House of Blues before the show. Saturday morning, okay, I lied, Saturday afternoon, we went to the Champagne Brunch at the Bellagio. We ate and drank more than $62 worth. Afterwards, we walked around the Bellagio, looking at the glass art and gardens. We then went out front on the Terrace, overlooking the drive and fountains.
The conversation started normal, but soon became pretty intense, emotional. I looked down at the face of the most beautiful woman I have ever known, have ever seen. I knew at that moment I loved her as more than the best friend she had become. For no reason, out of the blue, I asked her to marry me. As soon as I asked, I felt the dread hit me, fear. She had never once made the slightest remark that showed any level of love over friendship, except the occasional remark that she hoped we could become something someday. For the longest second of my life, I stood there holding her, looking in her eyes, feeling the most immense fear I ever felt. I was not prepared for the rejection that was soon to follow.
It is amazing how much can occur in less than a second. I took everything in and panic set in on me. I saw the tears swelling in her eyes, I realized how short a period of time we really knew each other. I knew that the tears were going to signify the end of our friendship. I had stepped over the line. I had asked my best friend and lover to be my partner for eternity, without her loving me. I had just lost my best friend. Then her head started to move. She was nodding through the tears. Her smile was bright and beautiful. Then at the moment that she said, "I love you.......Yes," church bells began to ring in the distance, music started playing and cannons exploded. The water show had begun. Coincidence, yes. Could Hollywood have choreographed that any better? Never. It was fate and destiny that I would ask her and she would answer at that moment in time, and the Bellagio would bless our engagement. She was more surprised at her answer than she was at me asking.
I went to Las Vegas with my best friend. The person I would rather spend time with over anyone else. I came back with the most incredible, loving, smiling fiancee. I love you, Denise. Thank you. Thank you for being everything to me. For having been there for me all these trying times lately. I look forward to an eternity of making you happy. Dedicating every moment of my life to you.
2006-07-12 18:16:53 · answer #1 · answered by Mark W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it really depends on your age. If you are younger then you are still learning what it feels like to like someone in a different way. But if you are older you just have to wait. Make sure you aren't pushing away people who you think aren't good enough just because of little flaws. Try to get to know a person throughly before making any decisions. Also don't go by looks or anything like that. A great guy could be hiding behind a facade you might not like. So just hang in there and wait. You'll find what you are looking for someday. Just make sure not to pass by any friends while you're waiting.
2006-07-13 01:19:09 · answer #2 · answered by littlemisspopprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that true love can happen to anyone that allows to happen.You will fall in love, he will fall in love but will you love him and will he love you that is a whole different thing. Me and my husband dated only 9 months before we got married. I am married now for 7 years.I knew on our second date that he will be the one. Before him I had two long relationships - one for two years and another for four years, but I knew it wasn't the right thing.I always wondered after my four year relationship if I will ever find Mr. Right and it happened when I expected the least. The night when I went out briefly with some frinds, no make up, just casual jeans and T-shirt. Honestly that day I didn't even wanted to go out. It will happen when you expect the least.
2006-07-13 01:31:31 · answer #3 · answered by Donna M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy with yourself, how can you be happy when your with other people.
Your expecting your boyfriends to fill an emptiness in yourself that only you can fill, so you feel disappointed when they don't make you happy.
Try being alone for a while, then maybe you can discover what makes you happy and fill the hole in your life.
2006-07-13 02:26:17 · answer #4 · answered by Founder 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first define in ur heart what u r lookin from the bf, also redefine what u r lookin for when u say they dont fit me
True luv is the one that comes back after u have let loose
lastly TRUE LUV IS NEAR TO IMPOSSIBLE TO FIND
this is just a sugestion
2006-07-13 01:19:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is true .the moment u see someone u will know it.it is a lot of pain in the heart ,but there is happiness in it.love is sacrifice ,and u will do it only for the one u love
2006-07-13 05:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When ever you cry not knowing yourself when something happens to one of your bf's he is the one..Thats true...tears are more valuble than anything...They come from inside the heart
2006-07-13 01:16:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kris chaitu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You haven't found your true love because it's not time yet. It will happen when it's meant to. Just hang on until then - it might be sooner than you think!
2006-07-13 01:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your true real love will find you...it may be hard to wait, but i truly believe there is a mate for everyone...don't be impatient and never settle for less than a true love...and it may surprise you where you find them....
2006-07-13 01:17:27 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentbooklady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only the lord can fill an empty heart
2006-07-13 01:16:24 · answer #10 · answered by Noelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋