well i have had sex with 3 guys... one of them is the guy im with now... the first person didnt get it in all the way .. so technicaly.. i dont count it as sex... but the 2nd person was really small.. but when me and my bf do it a certain way when he goes all the way in..it hurts really bad... and he said it might be because my cherry wasnt popped...could that be true??
2006-07-12 18:10:57 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Yes! It happened to me. Painful full insertion sex, and the guy would say "stop pushing me out!" Some hymens (cherries) have to be surgically removed. I didnt know what was going on till I got pregnant and the doctor said "i really dont know how this happened!" My son took care of the situation when he was born..he literally broke on through to the other side. Get it done, Girl! The sex is so much better!
2006-07-13 04:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Jo 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
First of all, not getting it in all the way may not be "full intercourse" but it still counts as a sexual activity. If your boyfriend has a larger penis than the last guy then it is possible that your "cherry has been popped", so to speak, but it takes a while for the vaginal walls to stretch so it will hurt every time until this occurs. Otherwise, he may just be hitting the cervix when he goes in all the way, which can feel uncomfortable for a woman no matter how many times she's had sex.
2006-07-12 18:14:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, if you did not bleed with the previous guys, you may still technically be a virgin. Try positions that do not hurt because that's not the point of sex (at least for most of us) and as you get more experienced, you shouldn't feel that much pain, unless he is too big, (then it will hurt anyway). Hope this was good advice.
2006-07-12 18:14:44 · answer #3 · answered by janmarbol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, you don't have to have sex for your "cherry" to be gone. A lot of times, what happens is that the hymen wears away on it's own, around ages 16-20, so many times a virgin will have a very small amount of hymen because of this.
2006-07-13 04:38:06 · answer #4 · answered by Erica S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As uninformed as you are, you need to stop having sex. Women do not have cherries in their bodies, they have a hymen. You are risking pregnancy and stds. What makes no sense to me is you let some guy hurt you and then give you some lame excuse as to why he is hurting you. Get a clue and stop letting these guys use you.
2006-07-12 18:15:24 · answer #5 · answered by ValleyViolet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the matter with you? Sex is sex and you're having sex with three guys? I hope you are using protection against HIV, STD, and unwanted pregnancy.Sex is not intercourse all the time. Sex is when two human beings touch each other to bring pleasure to one another. Was this experience worth it?
2006-07-12 18:14:14 · answer #6 · answered by sacredmud 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you say the second guy was really small...even if it was only 3 or 4 inches, he would've penetrated deep enough to rupture your hymen, unless he wasn't fully inside of you...perhaps your new bf is too big, and may actually be hurting you.
2006-07-12 18:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by taishar68 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, yes.
Your "cherry" or hymen, may not have been broken ("popped" by the 2nd guy if he was REALLY small (like 3 inches)... sounds like for once, your newest sexbuddy might actually be right... congratulations!
2006-07-12 18:14:54 · answer #8 · answered by ptm8 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pop it with ur fingers then do some finger paintings. just reach for the cherry... like ur reaching through the ice to get the cherry in the bottom of your shirley temple or roy rogers.lol
2006-07-12 22:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by D-dogg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
behind the cherry there's a radish that also requires popping. once this is done, a stork will send u a kid in the mail.
2006-07-12 18:15:50 · answer #10 · answered by Matthew F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋