i got something in my mind,i wanted to live in holland, europe, but one day i was talking with one of my best friends, and i told him what i was planning to do, but he said that if i did that he wasnt going to see me anymore, that make me like think better in it, i was thinking in going, im a crazy guy, i do stuffs with out thinking in consecuences, do it then live, i was going to go when i graduated from high school, i was going to buy the roseta stone program to learn dutch, i was going to live in amsterdam and study in the vrije universiteit, my dad used to work in the goverment of P.R and he worked there for 32 years so he left the work and now he and i will get money from all those years of work from him, im gon recive 500 a month till i was 18, i was going to save them, it were going to be $10,000 in all that i was going to win with it, plus i was going to find a work in here at 16, i got all that planed, but its so hard to leave my 5 best friend here and go to the other corner.
2006-07-12 18:04:03 · 3 answers · asked by jose r 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i was really going to do it but my friend told my dad, and another of them told me that i shouldnt do it, but i dont fit in puerto rican society, that why i wana go to europe, find a new way to live, a way that i could be happy, but i dot know if i can if im away from my loved people.
what should i do?
2006-07-12 18:05:34 · update #1
when i say my loved people i mean mom and dad to you know?
but i mean more my friends cuz mom and dad should know that im looking my place, and i think that my place is europe i think more about friends, cuz mom and dad will not be forgotten, i will be in contact with them for ever, but if i leave maybe i will go to far from friends and forget about them, well i wont but they will, and i dont want that to happen
2006-07-12 18:09:05 · update #2
U should follow ur heart, if it's in Europe then go there, if it's where ur @ now then stay. Don't let anybody tell u what 2 do. It sounds like u already put so much thought in going 2 europe, don't let others stand in the way of what u desire. Forget about what anybody said and then make ur decision.
2006-07-12 18:14:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to do that, you can't let anyone tie you down. You only live once, so you should do what you want. I have the same situation, except I'm moving to Italy.
I was told not to do it too, and I feel a little selfish for not caring, but I would rather have a life for myself rather than sitting around making other people happy BUT myself.
2006-07-12 18:15:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only have one life. You should go. Imagine all the new people you will meet! You can still keep in contact with friends and family. It would be a wonderful experience for you to explore a different culture and country. You can't live your life just to please other people.
2006-07-12 18:15:40 · answer #3 · answered by butterfly_grl74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋